From melina, Age 13 - 03/19/05 - IP#: 206.148.160.xxx  Click here to reply  
why do so many people(especially in middle scool)obsess on the fact of being fat and ugly i mean the guys only want the hott girls and they dont go for any one else it shouldnt matter how people look its the inside that counts right?
Reply from just me, Age 13 - 03/22/05  - IP#: 64.12.116.xxx
well y do u want to lose the weight? anyway thats not my point my point it isnt just the boys but it is also a matter of self confindence. u r right, but u see, having selfconfidence and high self esteem like that makes u overall feel better, and being healthy, its not always about the boys. sometimes u r right though,...it is lol
 
Reply from chill, Age 13 - 03/22/05  - IP#: 69.138.177.xxx
well, i guess i have 2 agree with u girls. kinda weird im agreeing with u. but MY kind should like girls for their personality. :)
 
Reply from beth, Age 11 - 03/21/05  - IP#: 65.186.15.xxx
exacly!!! if only more people thought the way u do!
 
Reply from helen, Age 15 - 03/20/05  - IP#: 68.158.46.xxx
yes i agree it should be whats on the inside but the society we live in pushes for physical appearance so not many people care about personalities but when you get into highschool people start to see past the "hot girls" and realize most of them are really rude and they cant stand them but some are nice and those are the ones that keep long term boyfriends but it really is nice to lose weight and guys start checking you out and saying how hot and pretty you are that is what makes you strive for that but after a while it gets old so find other things to motivate you because you can only be called hot so many times and just because you have a few extra pounds on then most people doesnt mean you arent pretty and if your pretty now wait until you lose weight and then you will be very hot but i also see skinny girls that are ugly so it goes both ways whether your skinny or not..
 
Reply from Amal, Age 14 - 03/20/05  - IP#: 195.93.21.xxx
yeah,guys are like that.cos you see (no offense to guys here)most of them go for the girls who are thin and hot,but their relationships dont last long.they'll soon find out who are the really nice people and who are not
 
Reply from Kelsi, Age 14 - 03/19/05  - IP#: 67.177.236.xxx
Yes! I totatly agree. Once i lost 30-35 pounds the guys liked me NOW. Isnt that funny!? Even the ones that bullied me and called me fat are now asking me out saying how "hott" I am.
Its a crazy world....