From Annanymous, Age 11 - 12/13/05 - IP#: 209.197.41.xxx  Click here to reply  
Ht. 5'2, Wt. 187 - Please Help me I saw you have been helping other girls like this. I am FAT. But am in LOVE. I really like this boy at my church he hold my hands sorta but yet he asked my friend out three times. I am a love sick puppy please help
Reply from Ravin, Age 12 - 12/14/05  - IP#: 66.157.18.xxx
You may be the other lover if
Your steady only ever makes dates at weird times of day and is rarely available to be with you on normal date nights like weekends and holidays.
Your steady turns off his/her cell phone whenever you are together or at least puts it on silent alert.
Your steady often makes little mistakes or slips of the tongue when it comes to remembering things about you, things like your sign, your favorite food, your favorite movie, etc.
Your steady has called you by the name of an “ex”.
Your steady never brings you around his/her friends or family.
Your steady often breaks plans at the last minute with little or no explanation, even plans that you have made well in advance.
Your steady is reluctant to make any long-term plans or dates with you.
Your steady is rarely available when you want to see him/her at the last minute but on the flip-side usually makes plans with you on the fly and at his/her leisure.
When you unexpectedly run in to somebody from your steady’s work, school or church they hide rather than introduce you.
Your steady seems to have to make excuses for a lot of odd behavior, like canceling dates, not calling when they say they will, not answering your calls or not being where they say they will be.