From Bianca, Age 13 - 07/10/06 - IP#: 65.25.167.xxx  Click here to reply  
Ht. 5'8, Wt. really big - I hate looking at myself and thinking that Im pretty and healthy when in reality i am not. I am addicted to aftty and sweet foods. Especially pizza, ice cream, soda, and chocolate. I dont have any exercise machines but yet i dont know what to do. I wan to be skinny for prom, or graduation, or my friends quincenera. I wanna be able to shop anywhere and I find the size that fits me. Please help me and I will help you too....i am desperate and I need to lose major weght!!!!! HELP ME!!!!!! (my weight problems sometimes led to suicide thoughts)
Reply from Julie, Age 17 - 07/11/06  - IP#: 4.242.174.xxx
Here's the site for anyone who is interested: http://www.med.nyu.edu/psych/screens/depres.html
 
Reply from Julie, Age 17 - 07/11/06  - IP#: 4.242.174.xxx
Just another thought...Suicidal thoughts are not good. They are terrible, I know they are, I've been there. Maybe you are suffering from clinical depression? I think you should talk to your parents and doctor, and seriously consider taking medicine for it. I have been for about five years. No, it doesnt make everything better, and take all the bad things away, but it does make it soooo much easier to deal with. I'm going to try to find a sight with a self-evalution test online. I'll post it if i find a good. If im totally off, and this is not you, I really apolagize, but suicidal thoughts are not good, and lead to really bad things. For all i know, you could already be on meds, and in that case, again I apologize. I really do just want to help you.
 
Reply from Julie, Age 17 - 07/10/06  - IP#: 4.242.171.xxx
You said you are addicted to pizza, soda, chocolate, and icecream. Pick just one of those things and try really hard to stop eating it. That's it. Dont worry about anything else. Keep working on that one thing until it no longer bothers you, and it is easy to go without. It may take days, it may take weeks. But, once you have that down, pick one more thing, and do the same thing. keep doing that until you no longer eat any of them. MAYBE, if you dont think it's too overwhelming, you could add some exercise. If you don't think you can handle that, dont start yet. Once you are at the point of not eating any of that, start exercising. Just take small steps. Eventually, you will be living a healthy lifestyle. It may take longer, but you will lose weight, and it will stay off. GOOD LUCK, hun. And know, we are always here for you. If you need any support, let us know.
 
Reply from Lindsey, Age 14 - 07/10/06  - IP#: 67.5.193.xxx
Same here!!! I look at myself and think I'm healthy, but really I'm not! I can't even find a bathing suit that fits good!!!
 
Reply from kaitlyn, Age 15 - 07/10/06  - IP#: 68.226.163.xxx
relax losing weight takes time i mean months at a time and lots of paitentce you may not always see quick results but they will show up eventually it took me 2 weeks to lose 4 pounds and im looking forward to the weeks to come b/c i kno now that i can do it bieng off junk for awile makes u relize how much u can survive w/o it i feel better and better every week
 
Reply from .:Missy;., Age 15 - 07/10/06  - IP#: 67.111.87.xxx
well dont worry everyone on this site is going through the same challange and yeah if you need somoene to talk to im here..if you needa weight loss buddy im be glad to help...