From jess, Age 15 - 07/17/06 - IP#: 207.200.116.xxx  Click here to reply  
Ht. 5'5, Wt. 280 - what do you think i should do? does anyone find bodies as fat as mine attractive?...not like "its what youre like on the inside that counts" but honestly do you find a almost 300 lb 15 y/o physically attractive?
Reply from mXs, Age 16 - 07/18/06  - IP#: 86.130.20.xxx
Oh - to add to that, my girlfriend is 16 - but shorter than you but admittedly thinner (though this is the UK)
 
Reply from mXs, Age 16 - 07/18/06  - IP#: 86.130.20.xxx
It depends on the person. Some people look good thin, some look good with a little, or possibly a lot, extra. Personally I would prefer a girl who was bigger rather than smaller to the norm. If the girl has a pretty face; it somehow makes their body more attractive too.
 
Reply from Mikayla, Age 15 - 07/17/06  - IP#: 24.18.50.xxx
I suppose that first impressions might take weight into consideration, but in the end its personality that really makes a difference.
 
Reply from Brittney, Age 18 - 07/17/06  - IP#: 64.12.117.xxx
it really isnt the weight- its ur attitude towards the world- if u r depressed or think that nothing ever good will come to u, then it wont- be confident- look in the mirror and c how beautiful u r; take that confidence and use it throughout every day
 
Reply from Joanna, Age 15 - 07/17/06  - IP#: 68.80.112.xxx
The guy I like ( who likes me back :) ) isnt the most attractive person. Hes not fat. But not mr. Popularity either. And i like him because of who he is. and how caring he is. find a guy and get to know him. He might just fall for you. I know the whole guy thing sucks major. and it totally blows your ego down he drain. and it doesnt help that the guy i like dont wanna make a commitment. But you gotta stand strong. I mean here I have a guy who I know really likes me and yet I am afraid to give him all of me, afriad he may hurt me. or afraid he may not like whats underneath of my clothes. Like my thighs. But you cant live life in fear. So when you see a guy you like walk by him with a huge smile on your face, even if he turns out to be a jerk, dont let him know he got to you. act like you dont care about his opinion. one last thing. Dont loose the weight for the guy. Loose the weight for yourself, bc if you dont do it for yourself you'll never succeed.
 
Reply from Lucy, Age 14 - 07/17/06  - IP#: 71.192.122.xxx
I agree with Julie.. if a guys nice and funny and isnt mean I'm all for him.. and mostly i look at faces too
 
Reply from Julie, Age 17 - 07/17/06  - IP#: 4.242.171.xxx
oops, sorry, pressed the wrong button...but, i really am attracted to guys' personalities...Once I like them for who they are, I start finding them cute...idk, i know thats dumb, but thats just the way I am...so just my two cents.
 
Reply from Julie, Age 17 - 07/17/06  - IP#: 4.242.171.xxx
i dont look at girls for obvious reasons, but when i
 
Reply from Elin, Age 17 - 07/17/06  - IP#: 24.226.40.xxx
For me, there's a lot of factors that make me attracted to someone. I'm more into faces... freckles... eee. :) So, it really just depends. I could be attracted to someone who is almost 300 lbs. Infact, I'm usually more attracted to "chubby-ness" x]], rather than skinny girls. _ I don't know why... I think it's cute... ._. I guess it just depends who you are for what you're attracted to.