From sabina, Age 17 - 01/26/07 - IP#: 69.118.136.xxx  Click here to reply  
Ht. 5'7", Wt. 164 - it's disgusting how my mother treats me. Everyday it's sabina you're fat...you need to lose weight...look at those girls their skinny...you should stop eating...I'm so sick of it. She is like you need therapy and today i told her she needed it. she loves making me feel awful, and that is not normal. I really can't take this. I can't wait for college onl a few more months. My brother had just finished the cheese cake I had none, and she claims I ate it. What is her problem? she was skinny, seriously anorexic as a teen, then she blew up after having my brother and me. Now she treats me horribly and puts me down whenever she has the chance. My dad is sick of it too. He said if she didn't stop he would leave her. I don't blame him. she is a miserable lady and no one deserves to be stuck with her
Reply from Sarah, Age 14 - 02/10/07  - IP#: 74.107.1.xxx
hey dont worry! since yur mom was ano as a teen and then got big (since u said) maybe she wants you to just be healthy or thin? but still thats no excuse to put u down all the time. i hate hearing about that the real sad part is it she probably doesn't even know shes hurting your self esteem.
 
Reply from ella, Age 13 - 01/27/07  - IP#: 205.188.116.xxx
my mom is suposevly on a diet now, and is always yelling at me for what i eat, like if i eat 2 pieces of pizza and she eats three, she tells me that that is no way to lose weight, even though i'm just trying to maintain it, but she is trying to lose it!! it makes me very mad. i think it's becuz she doesn't want to criticize herself, so she just criticizes me instead to make her feel better. idonno?????
 
Reply from kelly, Age 14 - 01/26/07  - IP#: 138.89.181.xxx
MENOPAUSE lol maybe....if not just proove her wrong and try to workout or loose weight go running and be like mom are u gunna workout? and if she doesnt be like call me fat.....and u dont workout urself? it will convict her and make her realize that maybe she needs to work on it 2
 
Reply from aly, Age 17 - 01/26/07  - IP#: 69.250.27.xxx
:( thats horrible! you're not even fat! just keep thinking about the fact that you only have to live with her for 2 more years? 1 more year? then off to college where you can get away from that negativity.
tell her that she is not helping you any, shes only making you feel worse about yourself, which may be a reason you eat more then you have to.
 
Reply from Shari, Age 16 - 01/26/07  - IP#: 65.75.88.xxx
My mum acts the same way sometimes... i guess its cuz she's getting old... i dunno.
 
Reply from Katie, Age 15 - 01/26/07  - IP#: 71.245.102.xxx
never mind i did not read the whole thing
 
Reply from Katie, Age 15 - 01/26/07  - IP#: 71.245.102.xxx
was your mom big as a teen? well if so maybe she got made fun of and she might want better for you just a though
 
Reply from Sadie, Age 17 - 01/26/07  - IP#: 24.226.40.xxx
That's horrible. My sister bothers my Mom all the time about what she eats and her weight, etc., it's a little backwards, but I always end up yelling at her for doing so. I hate to hear people being mean to one another. I know my message won't help because it gives no specific advice and what-not, but you can always talk to us. Jee... I never know what to say.