From sabina, Age 17 - 05/04/07 - IP#: 69.118.136.xxx Click here to reply Ht. 5'7", Start: 166 lb, Today: 164 lb, Goal: 140 lb - Hi everyone! How's everyone's weight loss going? I really need to vent. Lately I have lost some weight b/c I work out everyday and I eat healthy. But today this one girl I have known since I was 7 and I considered a friend was awful to me. She was anorexic throughout freshmen to junior year, now she eats somewhat normally. however she lost a lot of weight. Me however I'm not tiny but apparently I am "pretty" since I have a fan club at school, kind of weird but hey who wouldn't be flattered. Well today when I drove her home she was like you're really fat and ugly. Even though I'm only overweight I weigh 158 lbs. I was like what the hell? Where did that come from? and then she played it off as if it was a joke but still how does something that random become like a joke. It hurts a lot that my friend would say something like that. What do I do? I know it sounds so immature but I only open up to few people and the ones i'm friends with mean the world to me. I don't understand why she would be so awful.
Reply from Amanda, Age 18 - 05/05/07 - IP#: 63.135.14.xxx I bet you 100% that she's jealous. First of all, she's anorexic and hates herself obviously to be doing something like that to herself, and second she's probably venting her frustrations with her own body image on you. Instead of telling herself that she is fat and ugly, she's saying this to you to make herself feel better. The best thing you can do is ignore her and be happy and confident with yourself, she'll envy the hell out of you. Good luck :)
Reply from Anna, Age 14 - 05/05/07 - IP#: 72.69.123.xxx Just tell her Im sorry but We can't be friends anymore unless you are going to be nice to me. From now on.
Reply from Alyssia, Age 17 - 05/04/07 - IP#: 67.174.141.xxx That was so uncalled for. I personally would tell her something about being anorexic. Hey, at least I haven't had to throw up to lose weight.
Reply from Keisha, Age 15 - 05/04/07 - IP#: 72.188.174.xxx wow, i hate to say this but she's a bitch! thats so wrong! 158 pounds is fine! thats actually about how much i weight and im fine, the only thing is that I am a little "curvy" in some areas lol! so dont worry about her! im sure you look great, dont let people say mean things to bring you down!Also i have a friend that was 185..She show how much i was lossing n she alway was saying things to me..I look at myself n told myself that I luv myself no matter what she say to me
Reply from Maria, Age 13 - 05/04/07 - IP#: 70.142.14.xxx Could she be jelouse of your fan club (nice).
