From Claire, Age 19 - 05/31/08 - IP#: 64.131.205.xxx Click here to reply Ht. 5'4", Start: 210 lb, Today: 176 lb, Goal: 140 lb - why is it sooooo hard? :( my friend used to be fatter than me and all of a sudden she weighs less when I'm the one who started the whole weight loss journey and took life into my hands...I'm falling apart. It's just so hard. Why? I wish I had the drive that I used to back when I started. I just hate myself.
Reply from Claire, Age 19 - 05/31/08 - IP#: 64.131.205.xxx Thanks guys...really it means a lot to get support from complete strangers. But I feel as if we're not really strangers, we're all friends here..even if we don't know eachother. We're all on the same journey, so really, thanks! and Flower Fawn--we are so alike, thanks for your words! good to know that I'm not the only one. You guys are the best=)
Reply from Motivated, Age 18 - 05/31/08 - IP#: 71.192.26.xxx i know just what you're going through- both my best friend and my both of my sisters have lost so much weight and they all used to be bigger than me! my friend isn't even nice about it! but- you need to focus on yourself- not them, because won't it be better when we're all nice a fit and trim? then you can go clubbing or bar hopping and all of you will be looking hot and feeling great. no one will be left out then- just work at it!
Reply from Flower Fawn, Age 15 - 05/31/08 - IP#: 96.227.102.xxx I know what you mean Claire. Before my friend was WAY heavier than me and now she's so thin and fit like I'd say probably around 130-140 lb (if not less now since it's been a while since I've seen her.) It makes me really depressed sometimes becuase I wouldn't say I look almost 180lbs but I have a belly bulge and thick thighs. Some days I just wanna scream "WHY ME?!" But you have to find your inner strength and accept the body type you've been given. Meaning, once you get in shape and all, you just have to accept your good points and flaws. For example, I'm naturally curvy like my mom, aunt, grandma,etc. so my doc said my goal should be 140-150 lbs. Just remember that health and happiness and kindness are true beauty and you are pretty no matter what an arse-hole boy or biatch has to say about it. ;-)
Reply from Kailey, Age 14 - 05/31/08 - IP#: 65.93.61.xxx dude, youve done so good! like dont get discouraged i bet you said this before you lost all the weight the first time! just find the inpiration you need!
Reply from Ellie, Age 15 - 05/31/08 - IP#: 212.30.5.xxx ah same here my mate has always been the slightly chubbier one. but not anymore... it's pretty rubbish
