From britt, Age 14 - 08/19/08 - IP#: 209.240.206.xxx Click here to reply Ht. 5'4", Start: 198 lb, Today: 149 lb (BMI %tile: 91), Goal: 125 lb - ok i was wondering how everyone deals with guys because they all seem to be so judgemental at my school i mean i have never had a bf and most people are like be yourself but its hard when all they see are you huge thighs i am just sad when they have all these happy couples and i just want something what should i do guys never really seem to care
Reply from Trev, Age 15 - 08/23/08 - IP#: 69.205.172.xxx Alright, I'm a guy and I think I can help you on this one: 1. Your wieght wont matter to us as long as thiers a common interest, and ,if they do care, they are shallow as heck.2-dont be shy: nothing causes turn-offs and teases than having a shy girl stare from across the room-for both the guy and girl.Try and introduce yourself, ya'know! Stay positive! If you need any more advice, leave a reply on one of my posts, or even make a new one. Hasta Luego, mi amiga!(See'ya later, my friend)
Reply from Courtney, Age 17 - 08/22/08 - IP#: 75.69.210.xxx Honey, first of all you are what, 14? That's part of it. I know when I was your age I wanted a boyfriend to but the truth is you don't need one. Live it up with your friends. Guys that age tend to be judgemental and it's because they arimmature. When you get older you will notice a whole bunch of guys checking you out. Older guys tend to like curvier woman because they have a figure. So for right now just live it up! Have fun with your friends, try to get comfortable with who you are as a person, physically, mentally, and emotioally. As you get older things will just fall into place and you wi ll find the right guy. i promise.
Reply from aimee, Age 13 - 08/20/08 - IP#: 65.175.213.xxx I agree with Jess. Ever since i was little i've always had two great guy best friends. One in my grade and one is a year younger. We would hang out all the time and just have a lot of fun together. The guy in my grade and i were friends in school people always said that he likes me becuase we hang out, and had sleepovers. It was never true. I like having guy friends :] Even though i am overweight, in school i'm totally friendy to all guys, like i can just start talking to most guys in my grade, cause thats just who i am, and their totally normal. Sometimes can change my thoughts about my weight, i mean, i can't wear those tight t-shirts all the girls are wearing, because i'm worried about my stomach and i feel, everyone's different and this is just who i am, and i feel okay about my weight. Then other times i feel totally down, and wish i could be the skinny size like 6 or 7 jeans and such, but what i'm trying to say, is if you can even if its just for a little while try and find something positve about your weight. Maybe you have a favorite pair of pants or a great top. And yeah guy see the i'm over weight, but they still are normal, i've never be teased to my face about being over weight, but i still had the feeling that people were talking about it. So if a guy says something about your weight, to your face, then he's not the best, even if you hear that he talks about you behind your back, then maybe his not the right guy. I know its hard to see if guys care or not, but just try to talk to some guys, if he blows you off then thats his problem, not yours and hes the loser.
Reply from Rachel, Age 14 - 08/19/08 - IP#: 76.99.83.xxx before you goto bed at night there is atleast one guy thinking about you. they may be a-holes now, but there is someone out there for everyone. it may take some time, but you'll find someone eventually. not everything is about guys so yeah just live life up.
Reply from sera, Age 15 - 08/19/08 - IP#: 66.91.99.xxx i never had 1 too :( i hope to get 1 soon. i kno what u mean in 1 of my classes i sit on a table with mostly guys and all they talk about is hot girls, private parts, and sometimes they judge girls in the class or in the school but i usually dont mind them when they do & i make myself look confident even tho im super self conscious. i envy those cute couples at school too. but really just be true to who r are dont put up a front cuz u want some1 to like u for you & even tho if it seems like forever wait for the right guy to come along & im sure they arent 1 bit worried about ur thighs if they r genuinely nice guys they wont mind getting to kno u. hey i have a santa claus gut(not exaggerating at all) the guys in my class still like talking to me lol
