From JessaLee, Age 17 - 06/23/01 - IP#: 66.37.78.xxx Click here to reply
I noticed a lot of you skinny ones (yeah I'm crackin' on you again :) ) are comparing yourselves to others... mostly your friends. I do that a lot too. I weigh 170 (after loosing 10 pounds in the last month WOO HOO) and I feel great. yes, I'm still fat and all... but I personally feel very good about myself. Don't look at your friends who are aneoxic. I think not enough emphasis is put on how dangerous aneorxia is. Did you know that it only leads to death?? My aunt had it... she started missing periods... passing out, couldn't use her arms or legs sometimes because she wasn't getting enough energy. Forget what you're friends look like. And the models in magazines (if you notice... a computer has done up a lot of that, and they're suckin' it it :) ) You guys with the 26 inch waist and all that look FINE. Did you know that in the 1940s it was considered beautiful to have like a 30 something and over inch hips?? WOO HOO... :) Everybodys body is different... we're not all gonna be able to look the same. So... just YOU concentrate on YOURSELF... how YOU feel... if you feel good and all... you know :) Anybody wants to email me ( personal critisim or just buddy chattin') at Abbaaskid@yahoo.com
Reply from toni, Age 15 - 06/28/01 hey well i amnot anorexic k jessa i'm gonna go to camp i'll ttyl k
Reply from caroline, Age 14 - 06/27/01 I know what ya mean jess... i get tired of it too. But these ppl have a real psychological body image problem,,, they really believe theyr overweight... Ive read that it comes from an extremely deep fear and pain of being rejected,, which they feel way more than most ppl. Like TONI who posted below. She desperately wants her mom to say shes beautiful. This is what causes anorexia which can even lead to death. We can help them and be their reality check. Hugs... ~caroline~ ... p.s. I really like your postings!
Reply from JessaLee, Age 17 - 06/27/01 K! Is it just me... or is anyone else REALLY tired of all these skinny people coming and asking if they're fat??? I'm thinking about totally switching to another site... because this is getting stupid
Reply from April, Age 15 - 06/27/01 Jessa this is april! It wasn't me who put that! So don't think it was me! It must have been a different april! Hopefully ill talk to ya soon! Luv ya!
Reply from JessaLee, Age 17 - 06/27/01 Did you call me a pest?? LOL That's ok
Reply from April, Age 15 - 06/26/01 hey sorry for wut i said i didn't mean it........:) hope u forgive me
Reply from JessaLee, Age 17 - 06/24/01 Toni... look for my reply to your message in your email
Reply from TONI, Age 15 - 06/24/01 HEY MAYBE BY WHAT YOU READ U AND EVERY ONE OUT THERE MAY THINK THAT I AM NOT FAT BUT THAT WOULD NOT CHANGE THE FACT THAT I THINK I AM FAT AND I WILL DO ANYTHING TO GIVE UP MY BODY AND FIGURE FOR SOMETHING BETTER DO U KNOW WHAT ITS LIKE WEARING A SIZE 3-4 AND SOME TIMES NOT FINDING MY SIZE THAT HURTS ALOT I CRY MYSELF TO SLEEP EVERY NIGHT BECAUSE OF ALL THE PAIN I HAD OF MY OWN MOTHER CALLING ME FAT MY COUSIN WHOSE LIKE A SIZE 1-2 SHE CALLED BEAUTIFUL OH HOW I LONG TO HEAR MY OWN MOM CALL ME BEAUTIFUL!!!!!!! GUYS ON THE STREET COMPLIMENT ME MORE THAN MY OWN MOTHER!!!!!! NOW TELL ME HOW AM I SUPPOSED TO FEEL?????????
Reply from JessaLee, Age 17 - 06/24/01 Dear **** whoever you are... I may be a pest, but I'm concerned... and would rather help them to put them down. April... yeah it was that diet. Sadie, thanks babe! I enjoyed reading your letter. Oh yeah... and there will be more letters of encouragment or cristism... basically my thoughts on how I feel posted in the future. I'm not doing this to make anybody mad, I'm just voicing my opinion, as all of you are doing.
Reply from Sadie, Age 14 - 06/24/01 Hey I really understand what your saying totally but I am like skinny but I don't like the way my stomach looks and yea I do say I wish I could look like my friends but I also just want to do it because I want to.
Reply from aPRIL, Age 15 - 06/23/01 jESSA, U TELL'EM! iM PROUD OF YOU! WAS IT THAT DIET?
