From sara, Age 16 - 06/02/02 - IP#: 66.69.70.xxx  Click here to reply  
I really need support right now, cuz i just binged on fruit and baked chicken, i don't know what to do, and right now i feel really bad about myself. I looked in the mirror and after i binged i even looked fatter! I have to go to the beach for the weekend coming up, do yall think its alright for a um...not skinny person....to wear a bikini to the beach, even though im over weight, i hate one piece suits. Every time i look at bathing suits i get very depressed, wishing i had that body. I look even two times fatter because my figure is irregular, meaning, im 16 yrs old and i haven't developed any breasts yet, im as flat as a nine yr old, so i look even more, um...bigger, because my ribs are bigger than my chest. Help please, is there something wrong w/ me? Advice on anthing i have said? I would -really- appreciate it.
Reply from shavon, Age 16 - 06/03/02  - IP#: 216.158.68.xxx
Gurl....i know what u feelin, my girl tiffanys the same way...i feel so bad for those people..thats why im in here tring to help u guys!! so please let me help....and i know that u may want to have big boobs...but really u dont really need them yet...trust me...i wear a "D" now and thats not good 4 me..and i dont even weigh that much..only 99lbs!Oh yeah...and dont feel like you're too fat to wear a 2 piece...if u do that means that people wont say things..and they know that you're confortable w/ yourself!If u ever wanna talk 2 me about these things...come back 2 me gurl..i care soo much about u..and im gonna do my best to help u and everyone else!
 
Reply from nicole, Age 12 - 06/03/02  - IP#: 203.96.111.xxx
hey, i know exactly how u feel, but dont worry, i dunno if u really wanna take advice from a 12 year old but ill tell u ne way!
wat i have been doing latly is like having a small breaky and having really healthy sandwhichs for lunch and a healthy dinner, and if i wanted sumthing in beetween then all i will have is fruit, its quite hard but i have also been eating sugar free chewing gum and keeping myself ocupied by either painting (which takes hours) cleaning my room, playing netbal or surfing the net, and time just goes so fast!
i also run around my house every nite bout 12 times and thats bout 1 and 1/2 kms!
hey if u wanna talk just email me k, nicole_babe50@hotmail.com
 
Reply from Ryan, Age 17 - 06/03/02  - IP#: 67.202.18.xxx
That question goes without saying, it's absolutely perfect to wear a bikini if you're overweight. Who cares what some people think, the intelligent ones will think it's good because they know you're comfortable with your body.