From sue, Age 15 - 10/16/02 - IP#: 62.135.0.xxx  Click here to reply  
hi guys my name is sue,im new here.I hope u dont find this offensive but i really need ur help,its not me whos overweight,its my boyfriend.He's 5'9 and almost 300lbs,he was already overweight when we started going out but he kept on gaining weight and now he hates himself.He is really insecure and is always depressed,i keep telling him that i dont care what he looks like and that i only care about the person inside,hes a really gr8 guy and i think i love him,and so i hate seeing him so miserable and wana help him in anyway.We tried excercising together aout 3 months ago and he was on a good diet but thnhe got sik of it whenhe started gaining again and now he refuses to excercise or even talk about the whole issue,he keeps telling me that if i want to leave him hell understand and thathe probably embarasses me infront of my freinds and stuff,but i keep telling him its not true.I really care about him and i always tell him that i will always b there 4 him and help him out.Im so sorry 4 burdining u with this problem but i really dont know what to do.Thanx alot :)