From Liz, Age 18 - 04/09/03 - IP#: 144.136.144.xxx Click here to reply
Wow what a response! Thanks to all those who relied to my ealier question it gave me some new thoughts on the issue. And yes ami 'fat' guys dont really appeal to me BUT a guy can be a little chunky and its ok, but if a girl is normal weight or slightly overweight she is rejected. I am not obese or anything, just slighlty overweight is all. See for a girl to be attractive, she has to be VERY skinny, yet a guy can be very skinny or normal or slightly meaty and it makes no difference. Good point to who said guys just look for who they can have on a physical level. A complicated issue this one... but I still think some guys are shallow!
Reply from michelle, Age 14 - 04/09/03 - IP#: 204.33.208.xxx a girl can be beautiful no matter what size...she just has to believe it...
Reply from Georgina, Age 14 - 04/09/03 - IP#: 195.93.33.xxx I know exactly what you mean, but one other thing, next time you are out in town on a weekend, look around you at all the girls and women who are part of a couple. You will see that they are all different shapes and sizes!!!! So it must be possible and different boys must like different sizes! I don't know how it happens though!! But I told my brother (he is 19) what you said because he always has slimmish girlfriends and he said that a girl could have either a pretty face or a great body, it doesn't need to be both! But he also said that last summer when he was working on a children's camp (he is a student) there was a girl who was chubby and not particularly pretty and at first he wasn't interested in her, then as he was working with her and he got to know how much fun and interesting she was, he started to really like her, and he asked her on a date but she said no!!! (He is quite good-looking). So anyways that is just my thoughts on what youh said but it seems like there is always hope!!!!
Reply from andrea, Age 13 - 04/09/03 - IP#: 65.26.212.xxx what did people say to you because i'm pretty fat too but i don't know how to deal with it
