From (a$$!3, Age 17 - 05/26/04 - IP#: 195.93.32.xxx  Click here to reply  
I am so so annoyed. My sister has made fat jokes at me for ages and I've tried everything I can think of to stop her, like, ignoring it, laughing along, or telling her that they are just cheap shots but nothing has worked. and Now, because she does it all the time everyone else seems to think it's ok and it's not, now it's like, everyone, and just recently my best friend has made a couple of jokes and it's so annoying because like, sometime last year I told her that I was so annoyed that my sister had encouraged other ppl to do it and she was sypathetic and NOW SHE'S DOING IT TOO!!! And I can't say anything because my sister will contradict anything I say and it's just so frustrating. Every time she does it everyone laughs and I feel like bursting into tears. I feel like crying right now because I just got off the phone from my best friend which is where my sister came onto the conversation and joined in calling me fat ass and stuff and my friend laughed. If I ignore her she calls me more names and I can't see any way out of it except losing weight and I am but it's a slow progress. All my friends including one I haven't seen in ages is coming over on monday and I dread to think of what she would think if my sister started saying things. I should stop this is getting too long but if anyone has any ideas or wants to vent about annoying small minded ppl feel free to reply.
Reply from sarah, Age 13 - 06/03/04  - IP#: 210.55.124.xxx
i know this is gonna sound real mean but if she has any imperfections maybe start teasing her about those, then she will see it is not nice and stop		 
Reply from (a$$!3, Age 17 - 05/27/04  - IP#: 195.93.33.xxx
Thanks you lot.		 
Reply from anne, Age 17 - 05/27/04  - IP#: 216.66.107.xxx
tell them that you don't like it straight out. who cares if your sister contradicts you? they're your friends and should listen. if they don't stop take a break from them- because they're only holding you back with that attitude...		 
Reply from a, Age 16 - 05/27/04  - IP#: 195.93.33.xxx
ave the same prob wiv my bro i wldnt mind but one he only does it wen other ppl r there and two hes fatter than me!!!! men can be so annoying.
if u wanna get bk at ur sister pick on one of her insercrirtys or threaten her with sum thnk embarrasing that u cld tell her friends. or if u wanna really embarrass her make her wet the bed by wen shes asleep puttin her hand in warm water and then tell everyone about it or threaten to if she doesnt stop calling u fat.		 
Reply from meeee, Age 14 - 05/26/04  - IP#: 64.12.116.xxx
maybe ur friend juss laughed cuz she was uncomfortable and didnt kno what to say		 
Reply from ~kAiTlYn~, Age 14 - 05/26/04  - IP#: 216.74.216.xxx
My brother use to make fun of me all the time. One time in particular I remember going to the doctor and weighing one seventy something and he laughed and told me that I was fat. But now, he weighs at least 50 lbs. more than me! ur sisters aren't always going to be skinny, and if they r, I hope they mature! As for your friend, tell her that if she doesn't stop making fun of you that you will not talk to her ne more. Tell your sister to get out of your business when you are on the phone and if she doesn't stop tell her that you are gonna do the same thing when she is on the phone! Hope I helped!		 
Reply from Michelle, Age 17 - 05/26/04  - IP#: 24.83.221.xxx
first of all, tell your friend off. If she is your best friend, she should know how bad it makes you feel to have her call you such names. And in order to lose weight, you need to be in a positive environment, thererfore, either tell her to stop it, or stop being friends with her. And with your sister, she's family..why the heck is she making you feel so bad about yourself?? tell her to shut the hell up..or start saying stuff like how you dont mkae fun of how ugly she is, so she should leave you alone with the weight thing. Yeah that is kinda immature..but dont let them push you aroudn lilke that!