From Jennifer, Age 13 - 07/17/04 - IP#: 158.254.80.xxx Click here to reply
ok i posted late last night....about this guy, named bobby...and i need you girl's help...this guys name is bobby....he likes me as a really good friend, yet he like this other girl(whom i dont know) and asked her out...:(...but, i cant live that way...hes just wonderful...he helped me with some of my emotional problems....but, i really want to date him, i dreamed it...and i cried when he told me, b/c was thinking, he dont like me b/c im over weight...and so, should i ask him out(when they break up) or should i wait til he does me....he told me i need to find the perfect person....and i said i would....and i said, but i know ill be back, b/c ur perfect...and he said thats great!....im in love!!!!:), but i need to get better @ running for basketball in sept. any ideas to hurry it up(i weigh 210, i cant run hardly @ all, not goot at least)how can i get faster?
Reply from Caty, Age 14 - 07/17/04 - IP#: 68.33.204.xxx i think yoo shood ask him out ;). its a 50/50% chance! i thought no1 wood ever ask me out 2 bcus i wasnt skinny. but i did! well he wasnt exactly skinny himself either but he liked himself for who he was. but after he breaks up with the girl
Reply from Kaitlyn, Age 14 - 07/17/04 - IP#: 216.74.216.xxx I use to weigh 210 too. That was in January and now I weigh 183!
Reply from Catherine, Age 15 - 07/17/04 - IP#: 67.168.60.xxx Hey, I feel for you. I want a boyfriend so bad. But the guys that like me, I should say like one or two,lol, are guys that I dont like. I want a guy that is sweet, he has to make me laugh is number one, he doesnt have to be smart, but someone that I can talk to. Thats why I think being friends with a guy first, is the best way. But yeah I know what you mean. I have a best friend who is a guy and I have had a major crush on him 6th, 7th, and part of 8th grade. I realized that I love him as a best friend, but it wouldnt work out between us. SO I got over him, and had a new crush. We are still best friends. I think it is the same case for you. You love him like a friend, maybe one day you two will get together, but dont make him uncomfortable, if he likes you just as a friend, or you may lose him altogether. Your only 13, trust me, you will have a million crushes before you fall hard into love. I know how hard it is to see him date other people. I mean one time I was with him, and he was dating this girl, and he like went to go see her, and I was so mad at him, he had no idea why. LoL, but I got over it, and when you get a boyfriend, he could become jealous. Though dont get a boyfriend just to make him jealous, you could really hurt the guy that you used. I never used a guy, but I loved that my best friend was jealous when I had a boyfriend. All this advice is from my own experience!!
Reply from Marilyn, Age 14 - 07/17/04 - IP#: 24.61.55.xxx Jen, You need to lose weight to be able to run faster its the only weigh trust me i know i lost sooo much weight one time and i was a speed demond. And this bobby guy, tell him how you feel and if dating you is a problem with him hes not the gu for you and you wont be as in love as you think.But i have to tell you dating you best friends are fun so GOOD LUCK :)!!!
