From Katherine, Age 14 - 08/03/04 - IP#: 66.44.54.xxx  Click here to reply  
i have a question kinda unrelated. for those of you who are already in high school, ( i am going in sept) is weight an even bigger issue in high school?? i am thinking about how i am worrying so much about my weight for hs, when maybe it is not as big a deal as i am making it out to be. but don't lie, tell the honest truth. thanks!
Reply from Grace, Age 15 - 08/05/04  - IP#: 64.33.147.xxx
I'm going to be a Sophmore and my hugest fear as a to-be-Freshman was that I was fat. I weighed about 160 at 5'6" going into High School. I figured out that nobody really cared except me. All my friend are tiny (5'3" or shorter, 125 lbs. or less) and I always wanted to wear their sweatshirts or get the attention from guys like they did. Well, I was one of the popular people in my class that year. Nobody made comments about my weight. I figured out that its because I have a great personality and I love to laugh. There was this guy who was big (230 lbs) that was extremely popular and not very cute. I couldn't figure out why people wanted to be around him, it was his personality and he made everyone laugh...and not about his weight. No one notices your weight as much as you do. Just have a great personality and make a lot of good friends and everything should be alright.
 
Reply from Jacquie, Age 15 - 08/05/04  - IP#: 4.131.16.xxx
in my school no and yes most of the girls in my scholl are any where from a size -0 to a size 7 and they say there fat but in my school its mostly white people then its no because alot of guys like a little meat on there girl it depends on so many things
 
Reply from mee, Age 15 - 08/04/04  - IP#: 64.12.116.xxx
no, no one really cares
 
Reply from just me, Age 16 - 08/04/04  - IP#: 198.81.26.xxx
whoops i postd my last one b4 i was done lol. but no weiht eally isnt in highskool. in the 2 yrs ive been thro so far most of the ppl care mostly bout the personality of the person. its kinda as long as ur comfortable w/ who u r as a person most ppl could care less. good luck!!
 
Reply from just me, Age 16 - 08/04/04  - IP#: 198.81.26.xxx
no its really not.
 
Reply from Michelle, Age 20 - 08/04/04  - IP#: 12.158.14.xxx
being a heathly weight is important for your health. in high school what matters a lot is personality. also in highschool if you are overwieght or not dont complain about your weight. there was one girl i know on the upper end of the normal scale, maybe she was a bit overweight, and all she did was say she is so fat. everyone complained about her complaining, not about her weight. just be happy with yourself as a person. i am in college now and weight matters even less there than it does in high school.
 
Reply from Marina, Age 16 - 08/04/04  - IP#: 24.215.12.xxx
It really, honestly, isn't. The only time I've ever heard anyone "made fun of" about their weight is when they're an extremely rude or cruel person. & even then they do it behind their back. Which is cruel. But let's be realistic. In highschool, so many people are self concious & worrying about themself so much that they don't even notice other people or their weight. It just seems so minor & insignificant. Don't worry.
 
Reply from Jessika, Age 16 - 08/03/04  - IP#: 149.174.164.xxx
i wanna say good luck and have fun in high school it can be really fun, just be yourself and everything should work out great and honestly i dont think weight is that big of a deal, it was jr high where i got picked on for my weight not high school so as long as u r fun to be with no one even notices weight but no mater where u go there is always a couple of those cruel people but no worries im sure youll be just fine
 
Reply from Beth, Age 16 - 08/03/04  - IP#: 205.188.116.xxx
hey well at my school there are a few ppl who hang out in the popular crowd that are fat but mostly waht make the popular crowd are cheerleaders jocks pretty ppl and fun nice bubbly ppl so i wouldn't worry to much about how much u weigh casue ur friends from jr high are still gunno be there!! it all depends on ur personality and how u look out on live!!
 
Reply from Kathy, Age 16 - 08/03/04  - IP#: 67.163.33.xxx
Well, I don't know how it is in other schools, but in my Highschool, weight IS a big part in social things. Even though in my school the bigger kids don't hang out with the popular people, it is fairly easy to find a group of friends that will be there with you throughout Highschool. Don't make a huge deal out of it. You will find your place!
 
Reply from Jerricha, Age 15 - 08/03/04  - IP#: 149.174.164.xxx
i am goin into 10th and people dont really care about weight as long as u are happy with urself... if u are a happy then other people will notice that and wanna be around you..plus there are so many different types of poeple that u will fit in
 
Reply from Suzu, Age 16 - 08/03/04  - IP#: 24.42.124.xxx
Actually it isn't... I noticed that most people don't care... It depends on YOU. It mostly depends on the personality you have or the aura people get from you. Just be confident and know that you will lose the weight eventually, and the people you meet should stick with you throughout...
 
Reply from Catherine, Age 15 - 08/03/04  - IP#: 67.168.60.xxx
I want to know too!