From Jene`e, Age 16 - 08/22/04 - IP#: 205.188.116.xxx  Click here to reply  
WHY DO MALES TEND TO TREAT "BIG GURLS" LIKE THEY HAVE A DISEASE OR SOMETHING?
Reply from al, Age 16 - 08/23/04  - IP#: 212.2.175.xxx
of course guys will look at looks first... it is the first thing they will see,,, but girls are the same... the thing you want to do is to be outgoing, and confident.... let them see your personality before they see your weight... if you dont, of course they ( guys and girls) will not be attracted towards you... they reason that there are more guys like this then girls is because, there are more fat girls than guys...		 
Reply from Arianna, Age 15 - 08/23/04  - IP#: 24.14.155.xxx
evryone has a personal prefrence of what they look for in a guy or girl i guess.		 
Reply from Jacquie, Age 15 - 08/23/04  - IP#: 4.131.16.xxx
not all guys are like that some like big girls		 
Reply from anne, Age 17 - 08/23/04  - IP#: 216.66.102.xxx
suzu's right. anyways- that's stereotyping so bad. i'm sure it happens a lot but definately not all guys treat big girls like that. when i was big i'd get some attention and i know quite a few of my big girl-friends get a lot of attention....		 
Reply from Suzu, Age 16 - 08/22/04  - IP#: 24.42.124.xxx
....Seriously life isn't about going out with people.... If you lose weight you do it for yourself, not for anyone else, and either way its a sense of self dignity, you really want people checking you out if you are or aren't overweight? 		 
Reply from Ashlee, Age 14 - 08/22/04  - IP#: 149.174.164.xxx
god i wish i knew, but it does hurt, your at a party or somethin and you feel good until you notice all the hot girls bein checked out and there is nothin goin on for you		 
Reply from Alka, Age 14 - 08/22/04  - IP#: 68.113.177.xxx
I don't know. It's really sad...people just are cruel.		 
Reply from meg, Age 15 - 08/22/04  - IP#: 205.188.116.xxx
I dont know but sometimes i feel that way because the first thing that guys look at is girls looks and it really makes me mad...i mean some people just go out because they think each other is hot i am 15 and i have never had a bf and i am just a little overweight i have been told i have a great personality so thats not it...its my fattness		 
Reply from SuM PeRsOn, Age 14 - 08/22/04  - IP#: 141.150.165.xxx
Not all Guys are like that =P....I'm a guy and i dont treat bigger girls like they have diseases. I think the reason some do is because they're shallow or if they became friends or more with one it would probably look bad on them. THESE ARE JUST GUESSES SO NO ONE BETTER START SCREAMING IM WRONG!