From Ugly Loser, Age 14 - 08/29/04 - IP#: 4.236.243.xxx  Click here to reply  
I hate my life , i am never going to lose weight , i am never going to succed , i am never going to be a champion swimmer , i am never going to be who i want to be......... *sniff* nothing works for me. schol is starting and my life in hell is . i hate school it is a torture to someone as fat as me. i have to walk alot and wake up so early oh i wish it got burned down to pieces... *sniff* I wish i was like my little cousin , she is just 11 and she has alot of confidence and she doenst care if she fat. Her mom put her in a program that has a gym for kids , my mom is thinking of putting me there to.. i thought it will work.. why don't i just die and get over with this?!!!!!!! oh i hate my life!!! i hate it !! i hate it!!! i hate it !! i hate it!!! i hate it !! i hate it!!! i hate it !! i hate it!!!!!!!!!!!!!! - by the way i'm a girl.
Reply from Shellz, Age 15 - 09/10/04  - IP#: 82.41.19.xxx
hunni theres plenty of things to try, dieing isnt the answer i was suicidle once but im working on my diet!! i would have to say that eating no carbs is the Aitkens diet, which depending on what kind of foods you eat can be just as much bad as good. You can stay of the sweets and crap and still be able to have a diet, its not what you eat, its eating in proportion huni, i recommend the WeightWatchers, do it yourself for a short while, its a point system, you can eat what ever you want!!! but it has to be under the points, weight watchers will help you, it gives you a book on all the foods you can think of and it tells you how much points, now depending on what your weight it, you have a certain amount of points, you should try it out, usually take the amount of points your allowed each day and deduct 2 points from that immediatly, this means when it comes to the weekend you can have yourself a little treat with the extra points, its working for me ;)! keep on going huni i believe in u, u can do it !! xxxx
 
Reply from KATE, Age 13 - 09/04/04  - IP#: 67.130.62.xxx
I KNOW ITS HARD...I AM 5'7 AND WIEGH 240. I HATED MY LIFE AND SOMETIMES I STILL FEEL THAT WAY...BUT U HAVE TO REMEMBER THERE IS A REASON FOR U TO BE WHO ARE...U JUST HAVE TO FIGURE IT OUT.
 
Reply from shelby, Age 13 - 08/30/04  - IP#: 24.3.4.xxx
well i wouldnt worry about it just eat helthier and be you more than ever and i think you will lose it really don get depressed ill be here supporting you no matta what i promise and ill help you if you want me to. and i think that its great u have a goal of wat you want to look like. trust me i kno wat its like but i want to help you. e-mail me at lovey29123@yahoo.com
 
Reply from Abby, Age 15 - 08/29/04  - IP#: 24.88.12.xxx
I know it is hard. I am 5-7 and weigh 237 lbs. Just watch what you eat. Sometimes it is good to talk about it with your friends.
 
Reply from Noemi, Age 15 - 08/29/04  - IP#: 4.178.9.xxx
i felt the same way you felt just wanting too die and yes i hate school because i see the skinny girls there wearing cute clothes and stuff like that well i went on a diet and lost 15 ilb on 2 weeks if you want help e-mail me at NoeHuato_14@msn.com and dont forget you can loss wieght
 
Reply from girly!!, Age 13 - 08/29/04  - IP#: 65.69.55.xxx
the only way you will succeed is if you have confidence in yourself! you need to tell yourself you can do this you have to tell yourself you can loose this weight in a healthy way and stay active! you can do this, everyone here will help you remember have confedince in yourself and if your about to put that cookie in your mouth THINK do i really want to eat this? am i really hungry? do i really wanna put this cookie full or carbs and calories in myself, i don't think so!i wish you the best of luck and keep telling yourself you can do it!*girly*
 
Reply from ashley, Age 13 - 08/29/04  - IP#: 205.188.116.xxx
never isn't a word. u just don't have the discipline. Don't say never if u haven't tried ur best. If u go to teenshealth.com they can help u. They helped me lose 5 pounds.
 
Reply from Catherine, Age 15 - 08/29/04  - IP#: 24.19.141.xxx
You will never succede with that attitude. Your beautiful no matter what you look like. People have to realize that there is life after school, after elementary, junior high, middle school, high school. When you get older, people are not going to care what you look like, if you are a nice person, people will like you. Sure there are some that never grow up. But there are billions of people in this world. No one has the same shape, same size. If you eat healthy and exercise, of course you are going to lose weight. Life is too short to worry. If anyone tells you anything different, then that is there problem not yours. For anyone to say something about someone else's life, has bigger problems then you. So try to do the things you love, and if you put your mind to anything you can achieve it. You just got to learn to love yourself first!
 
Reply from me***, Age 14 - 08/29/04  - IP#: 216.180.203.xxx
um.......I dont' really know what too tell you. i think you should just excersise daily, eat balanced meals, and just stay active. that's really all I can say. I don't think you should say taht you hate you life taht much either too. That is what is getting you down. That is what's making think that you can't lose weight. If you have a postive attitude towards it you CAN AND YOU WILL!!!!! be more positive. sincerly. me***