From ashley!, Age 15 - 03/15/05 - IP#: 206.222.221.xxx Click here to reply
Alright guys, I have heard lots of people saying that their friends are super skinny, toothpicks, etc. There is NO way that all of your guys friends are tiny. I have some friends that are sticks, but I also have some friends that are average and some a little over. I mean please, that just sounds like you are trying to follow the crowd and be just like your friends, most of the reasons i have seen it to get guys(thats why you want to be like your friends). Im not complaining but just putting it out there. Most of my friends dont have boyfriends, but just because a boy likes one of your friends, doesnt mean no one likes you. I always thought that, but then I found out that like 5 people liked me. There is always someone paying attention to you so just be yourself!! *PS* I am not trying to say dont lose weight, just saying dont try and follow the group, be a leader not a follower.!
Reply from ashley!, Age 15 - 03/16/05 - IP#: 206.222.221.xxx yeah like what helen said. It is your attitude towards guys that makes them like you. If you have no self esteem and always are down on yourself, they are going ot see that and not like it, most guys like a confident girl!
Reply from Kaitlyn, Age 15 - 03/16/05 - IP#: 216.74.216.xxx Ya, I kinda have a reverse problem. Most of my friends are overweight and most of them have boyfriends. But, I don't wanna sell myself to a guy like they do, at least I won't be hurt in the end.
Reply from helen, Age 15 - 03/15/05 - IP#: 68.158.35.xxx yeah ive heard that alot and i also heard people say boys dont give me a second look because im this way but maybe it isnt the weight maybe its how you act..but some guys are complete egotistic pigs that only look at skinny girls which is really bad but maybe people get a little too shy which inturn makes the guy feel out of place so he doesnt even attempt to make a move i had that problem for a while..but i became more self confident which made people feel a little more comfortable... well thats all i got to say on that subject..
