From Katie, Age 14 - 07/03/05 - IP#: 207.200.116.xxx  Click here to reply  
HELP, OKAY MY FRIEND KEEPS TELLING ME I DONT LOOK OVER WEIGHT ALTHOUGH I DO AND AM! SHE KEEPS SAYING "KATIE YOU DONT LOOK FAT, YOU LOOK SKINNY" AND IM NOT... WHY WONT SHE JUST TELL ME THE EFFEN TRUTH? IT MAKES ME FEEL LIKE SHES PITTY ING ME AND IT MAKES ME FEEL DUMB, CAN ANY ONE HELP ME? WHAT SHOULD I DO TO FEEL BETTER ABOUT THIS... CONFRONT HER?
Reply from Kolleen, Age 15 - 07/05/05  - IP#: 12.202.134.xxx
--you need to sit down and talk to her.. be like hey i know that i am overweight... and i think that you r just tellin me that i am skinny to make me feel good but i want you to be totally honest with me i won't get mad at you! .... maybe after she tells u what she thinks ask her if she will help you try to lose some weight maybe help you watch what u r eating.. maybe walk or exercise with u **even if shes skinny, its always good to stay in shape** my friend is helppin me lose weight by exercisin with me and also when i am around her or stayin at her house she eats healthy and makes sure i do to...!--maybe thats what ur friend can do... hope i helpped!-and good luck
 
Reply from Megan, Age 16 - 07/04/05  - IP#: 24.170.34.xxx
As a friend you can probably understand why she wont tell you.. would you want to tell her? Try not to put her on the spot =)
 
Reply from kaitlyn, Age 12 - 07/04/05  - IP#: 69.21.206.xxx
i know exactly what ur talkin bout. it makes me so mad. i wish she would tell me. thats why i hate shopping with her.
 
Reply from Camille, Age 17 - 07/03/05  - IP#: 70.81.187.xxx
Maybe you're not overweight ... Have you checked the calculator to see? She might just be being honest.
 
Reply from heather, Age 14 - 07/03/05  - IP#: 68.229.95.xxx
my friend lauren says the same exact thing!!! But it's far from true!!! lol
 
Reply from Dom, Age 13 - 07/03/05  - IP#: 68.163.173.xxx
maybe thats just her oppninoin on ur body. . or she might just say that because she doesnt want to hurt ur feelings, nd if that is true tell her that u wud a appreciate it if she told u the truth s0o you guys cud go past that lump in ur friendship, nd you could tell her that u are overweight nd ur tryin to loose it. . . ii hope thatsz not to confusing lol, i hope i helped u =]