From Daniele, Age 17 - 02/09/06 - IP#: 165.95.194.xxx Click here to reply
Ht. 5'5'', Wt. 155 - this is daniele i just wanted to write to somene because of my problems. i dont know what to do or how i should feel. A long time ago when i was smaller someone touched me. But i dont know if it was really a big deal. All i know is that i get so angry when i think about it. i even feel suicidle. and it all so makes me eat. some one please tell what to do, becase i dont have any answers. if some one touched you on your butt while you were asleep, and this person was way over 50 would you tell. i trusted him very much. When it happen i kind forgot about it. but then i the 9th grade it all came back. please write me back. i dont have a computer at home so i have to use it at school.
Reply from laura, Age 18 - 02/12/06 - IP#: 69.47.203.xxx trust your instincts! this guy was over 50, he knew better. the fact that it's upsetting you means it is a big deal. find somebody you can trust to talk to, and dont give this man power over you by letting what he did to you turn you to food as a comfort source. if you keep it bottled in it will only get worse, trust me. the sooner you can begin to "heal" the sooner you can get on with your life.
Reply from Lindsey, Age 10 - 02/10/06 - IP#: 207.200.116.xxx TELL YOUR PARENTS, TEACHER, OR ANY OTHER ADULT YOU CAN TRUST. THIS PERSON WHO DID THIS WAS BREAKING THE LAW!! IF HE HAD A REASON LIKE IF YOU WERE REALLY YOUNG AND YOUR DAD WAS PUTTING CREAM ON A RASH IT ISN'T. TELL SOMEONE ANYWAY IF YOU FELT UNCOMFORTABLE!!!
Reply from Monica, Age 16 - 02/10/06 - IP#: 205.188.116.xxx well i can tell you from experience when I was younger I got molested by I friend of the family and I still think about that now and that happen when I was probably 6 and I'm like basically 17 now. Its something that will never go away and its hard to deal with. but u cannot i mean cannot let that affect you're future because that person was wrong and he knew it but u have to move on and pray for the strength to help you get on with you're life. I mean many people have been raped, molested and so much more but that has no affect on what there going be and that will not hold them back from making it.One thing I know though is u need to talk to somebody. That is real close to you. I would say a best friend but its gotta be somebody more than a best friend somebody that you know you can trust. you don't even have to wonder and I bet you it will make you feel better. but don't kill yourself don't even let the thought cross you're mind cause it won't solve anything. And don't overeat won't solve anything the problem will still be there. If u want to I would glad to help u through you're situation so if u need somebody to talk to u can email me at: chick4uphilly@yahoo.com. But if never talk to u all I can say is let what i wrote stay in you're head cause its the truth and it will help you. god bless and good luck.
Reply from jackie, Age 13 - 02/09/06 - IP#: 71.115.205.xxx oh Daniele! i'm so sorry! i've never had anything like that happen, but it's the kind of thing you can't just ignore and expect to go away. You were obviously very hurt--so i'd advise you to talk to someone you really trust who cares about you a lot. God Bless you!! ~Jackie **and remember-don't let your past dictate your future
Reply from Jesse, Age 15 - 02/09/06 - IP#: 216.175.30.xxx You really do need to talk to someone but this about this too. If you obsess over what happened you are giving the guy the power because it still rules you. Be your own ruler and realize he was wrong and not you. Then everytime you look at food you can tell him over and over again that he is not winning but you are and you have and can move one.
Reply from Christina, Age 17 - 02/09/06 - IP#: 24.233.65.xxx Hey. If you want to give a few more details and stuff but don't feel comfertable about it, I can talk to you. Just let me know and we can exchange email adresses. The best thing for you is to obviously talk to someone. Don't do anything stupid as far as killing yourself.
Reply from Courtney, Age 14 - 02/09/06 - IP#: 64.12.117.xxx I don't know what I would do in that kind of situation, but I do know I wouldn't want to make food a comfort to me. I would try to find some one you really trust, Like a best friend and tell them so you aren't keeping it all inside! Good Luck
