From rachelle, Age 16 - 03/04/06 - IP#: 205.208.227.xxx Click here to reply
Ht. 5'6, Wt. 235 - So yesterday I did okay, I didnt eat too good but better than normal, and I went to curves and worked pretty hard. Today I did better, I ate a turkey sandwich and some grapes, and I ran 3/4 a mile on my treadmill (not allot I know, but this is only my 3rd day, mind you.) and I did taebo. Last night I went out and this really cute guy asked me for my number, he was hanging out with my friends ex whos 18, so I figured he was around there too, and he didnt look older at all. So that made me really happy, and then went I got home last night he called me already, which made me even happier. Then on the phone he kept telling me how beautiful he thinks I am and he said allot of other stuff that was really sweet. He was kinda gangster lol so he kept telling me how "thick" i am. But then he asked me how old i am i said 16... he got really upset and said I ruined his night by saying that, and told me to call him in 10 years... turns out he was 39! I cant believe it.... I feel kinda bad about myself now, cause I like getting hit on but when the guy is that old....it makes me feel ugly.. but theres one thing he said to me on the phone that was pretty rude but I kind of appreciatte it. he goes "man, if you loss like 10, 15, or even 20 pounds at the absolute most you would be the perfect girl, and probably the most beautiful one I've ever seen in my life, I bet every guy you saw would be after you." and that really motivates me to lose weight. So I decided to make a goal, I heard its better to make small goals so by the end of this month I would like to lose 10 pounds, and then by may/middle of may 20 pounds. I havent been under 220 in so long, I know thats said but its true, it would be such a relief. yeah i'm probably the biggest one on here lol, oh well sorry I wrote so much but thanks for reading. comment if you have any ideas or motivation
Reply from Nicole, Age 17 - 03/04/06 - IP#: 64.12.117.xxx Hi, um I know this sounds so weird but what's your e-mail? I need some motivation. I weigh about the same as you. I started a diet March 1st..anyway my e-mail is gh3tt0b4b3g1rl@yahoo.com My name is Nicole. you're probably more well proportioned than me..anyway, are you on a diet? how long have you been on? what does it consist of? just email me that if you don't mind lol. oh yea and my highest weight was 270 pounds!! but i was pregnant..anyway thanks!
Reply from Lindsey, Age 10 - 03/04/06 - IP#: 207.200.112.xxx To Tasha, wow! A lot has happened to you! To Rachelle, who cares about him! I am glad you have decided that you need to lose weight and you have a goal now. Remember, you are doing this for you, no one else. You go girl!
Reply from Tasha, Age 16 - 03/04/06 - IP#: 12.223.129.xxx i share your pain...i attract a ton of older guys. I had to stop riding the bus when i was in school because the bus drivers were getting caught on tape hitting on me and they were all getting fired. I felt really bad about that. My best friends dad who was 43 at the time, pulled over the car one night when he was taking me home and started talking about how much he liked me and about how weird it would be for me to be his girlfriend...i was 14. I was molested by my gramas husband when i was 7 he was in his 60's. So i have some issues with older guys now. Dont let what other people say about you change the way you feel about yourself. My ex once said that i needed to lose like 15lbs to fit into his group of friends and i crash dieted and got really sick but i lost the weight. After i lost it, he broke up with me because he didn't think i liked his friends. So i ended up gaining it all back because i felt worthless. If you want to lose weight...do it for you, not for guys and not for your doctors or parents or friends. When you do it for you, you will feel a million times better in the end. Plus, there is a guy out there that will love you and cherish you no matter what size you are...when you find him...trust me it is a GREAT feeling. I hope this helps you a little.
