From Veronica, Child's Age 12 - 06/03/02 - IP#: 216.158.68.xxx  Click here to reply  
hello! i feel the same way..my 12 year old daughter weighs 161..and often comes home cring everyday from school, because she gets called names like..cow,pig,fatty,human trashcan,round ball...and lots of others.I try to always be there for her...now at school because she gets called those awful names she no longer eats lunch.Just a few days ago, she came up and told me that she wished she was dead..because she hated her life and how she always gets treated>When she told me that..i felt really bad inside and just wanted 2 cry.She wont go swimming out in public..its hard to get her into a hotel pool...i always pack a long t-shirt and shorts to put over her suit to make her feel more comfortable!She aslo wont play sports because she says she fat and kids make fun of her.I wish kids these days would just back off and not pick on other kids because they have problems they cant help!In my house i have a rule"treat others the way you would want to be treated!" and i tell ya here it works!I just wish other kids would think about it before they open their mouth and say something soo awful and rude...not only does it upset that child but it upsets family and friends!So please as you're reading this....talk 2 your kids or ones you know treat people this way...have a talk w/ them!Maybe they will understand more!Thank you all for taking the time to read this...and please talk 2 someone about this...kids or the parents..trust me you'll make a big difference in your childs life!If u have anything u wanna say or ask me..please feel free to say or ask...im here to help!
Reply from Tara, Child's Age 8 - 08/30/02  - IP#: 216.76.186.xxx
Hi,
My heart goes out to you and your daughter!! I have been dealing with the same thing, but my daughter no longer comes home and cry no more. I always tell her how beautiful she is, most of all i teach her to smile when people say stupid things to her, and always tell them God bless you and don't let them see you hurting. Yes its ashame how some people are not teaching their kids that its not right to make fun of people. I guess we are going to have to make sure our kids keep being strong and not let the rude remarks get them down. It really breaks my heart to know that you daughter said that she wish that she was dead."honey you are beautiful and i your mom loves you alot, so i am sure with a few changes in eating you can get the weight down, and i am sure mommy will be glad to help you. you all take care and keep working hard to reach your goals.
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Reply from Jed, Child's Age 11 - 07/30/02  - IP#: 64.12.96.xxx
Maintain her diet, and have her lash out at her opressers.