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I am 13 years old & i weigh 165 pounds.I know that seems like a lot but im 5'6.I hate being fat.It sucks.i have had alot of things happen to me like::::::::::my dad hasent talked to me in 3years:::::::my older brother got kidnapped when he was in 6th grade,:::::::::::::::::::::::::::my life is miserable...............can u think of any way to help me....