From stef, Age 12 - 12/19/03 - IP#: 12.221.74.xxx hide message replied to go to original board
i cant diet cuz i LUV CANDY!!!!!!!!!!! my family dont help cuz we always by a ton of sweet fatening stuff tat i LUV! how can i eat less?????????/ HHHHHHHHHEEEEEEEEEELLLLLLLLLPPPPP
Reply From kath, Age 17 - 12/19/03 - IP#: 69.140.157.xxx show message replied to go to original board
try and cut out all unnecessary bread foods. and also there is sugar free candy out there, which you could try. Also ask your family to get rid of the candy to help you out, they will understand
From stef, Age 12 - 12/19/03 - IP#: 12.221.74.xxx hide message replied to go to original board
i cant diet cuz i LUV CANDY!!!!!!!!!!! my family dont help cuz we always by a ton of sweet fatening stuff tat i LUV! how can i eat less?????????/ HHHHHHHHHEEEEEEEEEELLLLLLLLLPPPPP
Reply From kath, Age 17 - 12/19/03 - IP#: 69.140.157.xxx show message replied to go to original board
try and cut out all unnecessary bread foods. and also there is sugar free candy out there, which you could try. Also ask your family to get rid of the candy to help you out, they will understand
From John, Age 40 - 12/12/03 - IP#: 63.74.1.xxx hide message replied to go to original board
My daughter is obese. I'm considering telling her I want to send her to a boarding school that specializes in "healthy living" -- teaching her the habits she'll need to be healthy (and lose weight). Before I do, I'd like your opinion: How would you react? Would you want to go to a school like this?
Reply From Brittany, Age 13 - 12/12/03 - IP#: 205.188.209.xxx show message replied to go to original board
I'm not really that overweight, but I don't think I'd like it very much if my parents sent me there, but if I was obese, I don't think I'd be upset if they asked me if I'd like to go. You should ask your daughter if she would want to go, explain why you want her to go and that it would be good for her health, and then see if she is willing to go.
From John, Age 40 - 12/12/03 - IP#: 63.74.1.xxx hide message replied to go to original board
My daughter is obese. I'm considering telling her I want to send her to a boarding school that specializes in "healthy living" -- teaching her the habits she'll need to be healthy (and lose weight). Before I do, I'd like your opinion: How would you react? Would you want to go to a school like this?
Reply From Emily, Age 17 - 12/12/03 - IP#: 68.90.18.xxx show message replied to go to original board
John, My dad is very concerned and has been about my weight for as long as i can remember. I struggle everyday with terrible awful thoughts about how terribly fat i am. I've even turned to bulimia, and laxatives at one point. He used to sit me down with my mom and turn me into a big crying fest. he would tell me that he was telling me to lose weight because he loved me, but all i heard was "you're fat and i won't love you if you are" My suggestion? don't send her away! that's the last thing she needs. What she needs is for you to just love on her. make sure you never go a day without hugging her. If you really are concerned about her weight. Ask her what she think about it (in a tactful way of course) Ask her how others treat her because of it. if you want to have contrl over what she eats. don't buy any junkfood. make sure your house is junkfood free. Go on walks with... (view more)John, My dad is very concerned and has been about my weight for as long as i can remember. I struggle everyday with terrible awful thoughts about how terribly fat i am. I've even turned to bulimia, and laxatives at one point. He used to sit me down with my mom and turn me into a big crying fest. he would tell me that he was telling me to lose weight because he loved me, but all i heard was "you're fat and i won't love you if you are" My suggestion? don't send her away! that's the last thing she needs. What she needs is for you to just love on her. make sure you never go a day without hugging her. If you really are concerned about her weight. Ask her what she think about it (in a tactful way of course) Ask her how others treat her because of it. if you want to have contrl over what she eats. don't buy any junkfood. make sure your house is junkfood free. Go on walks with her. Talk with her. But don't make your relationship revolve around her weight. That's the last thing she needs. Little girls get dressed up in their mothers stuff just to hear someone say you're beautiful. That's what she needs she needs to know that you think she beautiful, inside and outside. This is how i wish my dad would have done it. as it is i now have psycoogical problems becuase of how he handled it. I do admit that he loves me but i don't believe all the time. Make sure that you make it clear that you love your daughter no matter what happens, and no matter what she looks like. -Emily a 17yr old (view less)
From John, Age 40 - 12/12/03 - IP#: 63.74.1.xxx hide message replied to go to original board
My daughter is obese. I'm considering telling her I want to send her to a boarding school that specializes in "healthy living" -- teaching her the habits she'll need to be healthy (and lose weight). Before I do, I'd like your opinion: How would you react? Would you want to go to a school like this?
Reply From Molly, Age 18 - 12/12/03 - IP#: 82.33.41.xxx show message replied to go to original board
Hiyas. Its nice to see you are concerned about your daughter, but I dont think sending her away to school is the answer. You have to see the reasons for why she is over eating. Find out if she is unhappy about something and more than anything ill guess that she needs your support. I wouldnt want my parents to send me away. You could ask her how she would feel about it. But taking her away from her family and friends might not be the answer. Just see a family doctor who might reccomend a dietrition and then just help her by stocking healthy foods in your house. All go on a diet maybe? If you only provide healthy foods she will eat those foods. And also maybe walk with her to start some gentle excersises.
From Beanie, Age 11 - 09/23/03 - IP#: 64.12.96.xxx hide message replied to go to original board
My name's Beanie... and I'm overweight in the worst way! I'm five feet three inches tall and I weigh 210 pounds! I really know I need to lose weight. I think my weight influences the amount of people who want to be my friend. I only have two friends in the entire world! It is hard to lose weight since I can't be active 'cause my mother never lets me get out of the house! She only buys sweets and sodas all of the time because that's all her boyfriend will ever eat! I went to the doctors and the doctor would lecture me for about an hour about how serious I need to be with this. I am serious but I guess my mother isn't! Is there anyway I can do this under such strict conditions?
Reply From bridget, Age 11 - 11/13/03 - IP#: 63.184.113.xxx show message replied to go to original board
you need to talk with ur mom privately. then you should tell her how serious this is because that is no joke!!!!! tell her that she should buy salad fruits and lean meats. is ur mom and her boyfriend overweight?
From Halle, Age 13 - 11/11/03 - IP#: 81.106.107.xxx hide message replied to go to original board
Ht. 6'0", Today: 400 lb (BMI %tile: 98) - This is my 1st time on the site and i fink i have the worst case on here im 13 6ft and 400 lbs! i cnt walk dwn the stairs i have eough trouble walking 2 the bathroom i comforteat i have 2 i stay in bed all day bored my mum homeschools me so i have no friends im all alone never been kissed im ugly and fat i have 5 chins a pot belly and ginormous thighs i cant exercise and cant diet because my mum insists on 3 meals a day and some snacks (she thinks it healthy) i have 2 older sisters 15 and 18 and they r size 4s and eat 3 meals a day and snacks they dont talk 2 me i need help a.s.a.p
Reply From Kasey, Age 13 - 11/11/03 - IP#: 207.144.198.xxx show message replied to go to original board
I think you need to talk to your mom. If she does'nt want to help then talk to someone you can trust. Being overweitght is a hugh prob. but we here all have the same prob. And stop saying your ugly. We all are beautiful in the inside.
From Halle, Age 13 - 11/11/03 - IP#: 81.106.107.xxx hide message replied to go to original board
Ht. 6'0", Today: 400 lb (BMI %tile: 98) - This is my 1st time on the site and i fink i have the worst case on here im 13 6ft and 400 lbs! i cnt walk dwn the stairs i have eough trouble walking 2 the bathroom i comforteat i have 2 i stay in bed all day bored my mum homeschools me so i have no friends im all alone never been kissed im ugly and fat i have 5 chins a pot belly and ginormous thighs i cant exercise and cant diet because my mum insists on 3 meals a day and some snacks (she thinks it healthy) i have 2 older sisters 15 and 18 and they r size 4s and eat 3 meals a day and snacks they dont talk 2 me i need help a.s.a.p
Reply From Kasey, Age 13 - 11/11/03 - IP#: 207.144.198.xxx show message replied to go to original board
I think you need to talk to your mom. If she does'nt want to help then talk to someone you can trust. Being overweitght is a hugh prob. but we here all have the same prob. And stop saying your ugly. We all are beautiful in the inside.
From Mike, Age 11 - 10/09/03 - IP#: 68.109.145.xxx hide message replied to go to original board
Hi I am 200 pounds !!! I really really need help. I need to lose like 100 pounds ! I know it will take time but if anyone has any nfo for me about diet and exercise I could really use it. I am headed towards lots of disease like diabetes and heart problems. Help me someone ANYONE PLEASE !!!!!!!!!!!!
Reply From Stephanie, Age 13 - 10/10/03 - IP#: 216.78.34.xxx show message replied to go to original board
What kinds of foods do you tend to eat reguarly?Does your family eat out a lot? Talk to your parents about your weight.Explain to them how unhappy you are and then figure out a diet plan that's right for YOU.Not everyone can lose weight by going on atkins or weight watchers.E-mail me to chat:sweet_stephanie_13@hotmail.com
From Beanie, Age 11 - 09/23/03 - IP#: 64.12.96.xxx hide message replied to go to original board
My name's Beanie... and I'm overweight in the worst way! I'm five feet three inches tall and I weigh 210 pounds! I really know I need to lose weight. I think my weight influences the amount of people who want to be my friend. I only have two friends in the entire world! It is hard to lose weight since I can't be active 'cause my mother never lets me get out of the house! She only buys sweets and sodas all of the time because that's all her boyfriend will ever eat! I went to the doctors and the doctor would lecture me for about an hour about how serious I need to be with this. I am serious but I guess my mother isn't! Is there anyway I can do this under such strict conditions?
Reply From cynthia, Age 10 - 10/06/03 - IP#: 69.43.24.xxx show message replied to go to original board
you really need to tell your mom that she needs to be more serious about your weight
From Beanie, Age 11 - 09/23/03 - IP#: 64.12.96.xxx hide message replied to go to original board
My name's Beanie... and I'm overweight in the worst way! I'm five feet three inches tall and I weigh 210 pounds! I really know I need to lose weight. I think my weight influences the amount of people who want to be my friend. I only have two friends in the entire world! It is hard to lose weight since I can't be active 'cause my mother never lets me get out of the house! She only buys sweets and sodas all of the time because that's all her boyfriend will ever eat! I went to the doctors and the doctor would lecture me for about an hour about how serious I need to be with this. I am serious but I guess my mother isn't! Is there anyway I can do this under such strict conditions?
Reply From NICOLE, Age 12 - 09/24/03 - IP#: 24.186.35.xxx show message replied to go to original board
I HAVE STRICT CONDITIONS TO CAUSE I DONT WANT MY MOM TO THINK I AM FAT SO I DO IT WITHOUT HER RELAZING WHEN EVER U HAVE FREETIME YOU SHOULD GO IN YOUR ROOM AND DO SOME SITUPS THEN PUT ON SOMEMUSIC AND DANCE A LITTLEBIT AND DO NOT EAT THE JUNK FOOD SHE BUYS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! IF U HAVE A GRAND PARENT OR AUNT OR UNCLE ASK THEM 2 TALK 2 UR MOM AND TELL HER THAT SHE NEEDS TO GET SERIOUS - IF U WANT EMAIL ME AT PUPPYLOVE9131@HOTMAIL.COM OR IM ME MY SN IS PUPPYRINCESS52-U CAN CONSIDOR ME AS A FRIEND
From Krissy, Age 13 - 07/27/03 - IP#: 64.12.96.xxx hide message replied to go to original board
Ht. 5'6", Today: 213 lb (BMI %tile: 98), Goal: 190 lb - hey! i am 13 female and weight 213lbs.... i know that is alot, and i want some help! I have only one month b4 school starts and want to weight about 190 or so byt then! And then i have a long term goal of 6months to lose 90lbs!! if u have any suggestions or comments to help me out please let me know on here or on Aol~KrizazyKrissy247 or e-mail me KrizazyKrissy247@aol.com AIm:Malmaniac4life or yahoo~Wildchildsoftballgal .... byt he way i am 5'6 and am going into 8th grade! I really wnat to achive this by february to look great for one half the year and for all my years to come!!! if u can help me Thanks sooo much!
Reply From Stephanie, Age 12 - 07/27/03 - IP#: 198.81.26.xxx show message replied to go to original board
Hey! What you can do is tell your mom, dad, or gardian to buy healthy foods such as fruits and vegetables instead of those junky foods. Also try to do healthy things like ride a bike every day, do sports, dance, or jog outside. Try to eat half of what u usually eat every day and save it for later. Let me know how everything turns out - Chow!
From Megan, Age 17 - 07/03/03 - IP#: 68.116.79.xxx hide message replied to go to original board
Hi my name is megan and i'm almost 17 years old..i have been dealing with a weight issue for a long time.. I need to lose 15 pounds and before school. I know i can do it i just need help.. i have this problem where i eat good for like 3 days and then i feel deprived to i binge on one day and like eat all this fatty bad food..like candy and cake and all that stuff..it's like i can't stop..and then i feel so guilty afterward..i just need to stop those little eating episodes and just be normal. I don't ever throw up my food...that is just horrible..i'm glad i don't! I really need your advice..so please share your thoughts and ideas..i really need this..in the worst way! email me with your input.. mhbaby88@hotmail.com
Reply From Jenna, Age 16 - 07/04/03 - IP#: 205.188.209.xxx show message replied to go to original board
I am the same exact way! I'll be thinking positive about eating healthy and then after a few days, I'll put all of that down the drain. Your best bet is to talk to your parents about the food they buy for the family. I talked to my mom about it and now she rarely buys junk food, except on special occasions. Keep saying to yourself in your mind when you're looking for something to eat; do I want to fit into those or not? It might help. Good luck!
From Megan, Age 17 - 07/03/03 - IP#: 68.116.79.xxx hide message replied to go to original board
Hi my name is megan and i'm almost 17 years old..i have been dealing with a weight issue for a long time.. I need to lose 15 pounds and before school. I know i can do it i just need help..i have this problem where i eat good for like 3 days and then i feel deprived to i binge on one day and like eat all this fatty bad food..like candy and cake and all that stuff..it's like i can't stop..and then i feel so guilty afterward..i just need to stop those little eating episodes and just be normal. I don't ever throw up my food...that is just horrible..i'm glad i don't! I really need your advice..so please share your thoughts and ideas..i really need this..in the worst way! email me with your input.. mhbaby88@hotmail.com
Reply From Jenna, Age 16 - 07/04/03 - IP#: 205.188.209.xxx show message replied to go to original board
I am the same exact way! I'll be thinking positive about eating healthy and then after a few days, I'll put all of that down the drain. Your best bet is to talk to your parents about the food they buy for the family. I talked to my mom about it and now she rarely buys junk food, except on special occasions. Keep saying to yourself in your mind when you're looking for something to eat; do I want to fit into those or not? It might help. Good luck!
From : ( - 06/30/03 - IP#: 129.37.157.xxx hide message replied to go to original board
i have a BIG problem(no pun intended) i cant stop eating! even when im not hungry i just eat! PLEASE HELP ME! i actually am not really hungry most of the day i just eat.one time i decided 'thats it' but my family and friends asked if i was going to starve myself. i was like'im just not hungry' but they didnt belive me, especially at restaurants or lunch at school. i seriously wasnt hungry but ive fallen back to my old ways! do any of u have suggestions? i know u dont like always replying to everyone but IT WOULD REALLY HELP!!!
Reply From chloe, Age 15 - 07/01/03 - IP#: 202.156.2.xxx show message replied to go to original board
why dont you try explainin to your friends and family that you are trying not to overeat and you could use some support instead? i try hard not to eat either and sometimes i cant stop either. thats because im currently under medication that makes me hungry half the time =( so i understand how you feel... good luck and take care
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