From Jake, Age 17 - 05/13/08 - IP#: 71.146.80.xxx Click here to reply Ht. 5'8", Start: 180 lb, Today: 169 lb, Goal: 150 lb - Hi everyone! Ive noticed that there are mostly girls on this site so I was hoping someone can help me. I really like this girl and were good friends and we IM each other a lot and engage in interesting conversations. But Im kinda chubby and not athletic and she has a boyfriend thats really muscular but I can tell she doesnt really like him... and he flirts with other girls too. Ive never had a girlfriend and Id like to ask her out... what should I do? p.s. I cant really talk to her about it because shes shy and gets easily embrassed
Reply from kaby, Age 16 - 05/13/08 - IP#: 64.12.116.xxx I guess you could go for it, but be aware what a big risk you're taking. If she says yes, you guys could be happy and stay together for a long time, but if not, you should be prepared to not be as close as you once were. I told one of my guy friends who had a crush on a friend with a boyfriend to go for it, and the girl ended up being deeply in love with the boyfriend. as far as I know of, they don't talk anymore. If she gives you signs (and I mean REAL signs, not the fact that she laughed at a joke you said or something), then I say it's your call. If you ask, she could say no, but if you don't ask, you'll never know. Just try and stay positive and confident. Good luck!
