From john, Child's Age 12 - 07/03/09 - IP#: 69.123.174.xxx Click here to reply
as soon as i went downstairs today, i saw sammie eating loads of food downstairs. i told her to go take a jog, and excersize it off. i stayed outside to make sure that she was really jogging. i watched her try to run, and less than halfway down the block she became red in the face, and started panting. she asked if she could stop because she was hungry and i told her to go around the whole block. when she came back, she was all covered in sweat, and exausted. she went right back into the kitchen and started to eat.then, we decided to go to the pool, but her only tankini was in the wash, and nothing else fit her but a two peice because her belly wasn't being squeezed in. when standing up, her stomach is the exact length of her arms sicking out in front of her. she has gotten really big, and i really didn't want her to go in it, because she looked inapropriately dressed. she can't really... (view more)as soon as i went downstairs today, i saw sammie eating loads of food downstairs. i told her to go take a jog, and excersize it off. i stayed outside to make sure that she was really jogging. i watched her try to run, and less than halfway down the block she became red in the face, and started panting. she asked if she could stop because she was hungry and i told her to go around the whole block. when she came back, she was all covered in sweat, and exausted. she went right back into the kitchen and started to eat.then, we decided to go to the pool, but her only tankini was in the wash, and nothing else fit her but a two peice because her belly wasn't being squeezed in. when standing up, her stomach is the exact length of her arms sicking out in front of her. she has gotten really big, and i really didn't want her to go in it, because she looked inapropriately dressed. she can't really swim good, because of her weight, but i made her try. then, i saw her tagging along with her brother to get something to eat, and she asked for four ice creams for herself. i ran over, and told her only one, and she yelled riht in my face she was hungry. i was shocked when a group of people told her to listen to me, and she yelled at them and said she was hungry. an elderly lady told her, look at the size of you, dear, and tell me you need that ice cream! then, a little girl said to her parents, why is that girl so fat? and her dad said, because she's a spoiled brat. sammie heard this, and ran away crying. in the car, kyle said what we didn't want to tell her. he told her she'd gotten too fat, and can't keep eating like this. he even had to get her seatbelton, because her stomach kept getting in the way, and she can hardly squeeze into the small space in the car. plus, the seatbelt squeezed her middle, it's gotten so big. at home, i asked her to do some crunched for me, but she couldn't even bend, because her belly was too big. we have decided to buy a treadmill just for her. she has gotten way out of line,and it's about time she lost it. (view less)
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From john, Child's Age 12 - 07/02/09 - IP#: 69.114.130.xxx Click here to reply
a little while ago, i caught sammie as soon as she finished four leftover hotdogs in the firdge. her stomach was still growling. i decided that since this was hard for her, i would let her eat whatever she wanted today, and she could start the diet the next day. she ran to the fridge, and grabbed the unopened chocolate cake we bought. i ate a bite to take some food away from her. she shoveled in peice after peice, until there was a tiny bit left. then, she went back into the fridge, and ate two doughnuts. i asked her if she was done, and she said no, not yet. she began to get some bloating, i think, because she unzipped her jeans, and lifted up her shirt so her belly was loose. i went out of the kitchen, and throughout the rest of the day, i saw her wolfing down meal after meal after meal. she then told me she had decided she dosen't want to be a model, she wants to be fat so she can eat... (view more)a little while ago, i caught sammie as soon as she finished four leftover hotdogs in the firdge. her stomach was still growling. i decided that since this was hard for her, i would let her eat whatever she wanted today, and she could start the diet the next day. she ran to the fridge, and grabbed the unopened chocolate cake we bought. i ate a bite to take some food away from her. she shoveled in peice after peice, until there was a tiny bit left. then, she went back into the fridge, and ate two doughnuts. i asked her if she was done, and she said no, not yet. she began to get some bloating, i think, because she unzipped her jeans, and lifted up her shirt so her belly was loose. i went out of the kitchen, and throughout the rest of the day, i saw her wolfing down meal after meal after meal. she then told me she had decided she dosen't want to be a model, she wants to be fat so she can eat all she wants to. i told her she dosen't have to be a mode, but this wasn't healthy for her. she told me that she really likes to eat, and didn't care how big her belly gets. i'm still going to try, but i can't help feeling guilty that she chose this, because i let her eat. then again, she looked like she was close to cracking her diet the first minute she started it. she didn't care enought to be consistant with her diet. my daughter has to go around wearing elastic pants in overweight mens sizes so her stomach can grow. please help me think of something to help her. (view less)
From john, Child's Age 12 - 07/02/09 - IP#: 173.3.183.xxx Click here to reply
this diet thing has been so hard for sammie. every time i see her reach for something unhealthy, i remind her of her goals. yesterday, she even started crying when i made her give up a hamburger and fries. we went to the pool a few days ago, and she wore a tankini. her stomach was too big for it, though, and bursted out. she didn't even go swimming, though, just sat and ate a pretzel and some soda. there wasactually this little belt to put on over the bathing suitm so i tried to get it on. i finally squeezed it over her belly, and closed it on the last notch. for a while she went around, looking squeezed in, and when she sat down, it opened, and popped off. looking at her belly, compared to the other overweight girls, she looked like she was much fatter than all of them. i was wearing a belt with my pants before i cahnged into my bathing suit, and it was too big on me, so i tried it on... (view more)this diet thing has been so hard for sammie. every time i see her reach for something unhealthy, i remind her of her goals. yesterday, she even started crying when i made her give up a hamburger and fries. we went to the pool a few days ago, and she wore a tankini. her stomach was too big for it, though, and bursted out. she didn't even go swimming, though, just sat and ate a pretzel and some soda. there wasactually this little belt to put on over the bathing suitm so i tried to get it on. i finally squeezed it over her belly, and closed it on the last notch. for a while she went around, looking squeezed in, and when she sat down, it opened, and popped off. looking at her belly, compared to the other overweight girls, she looked like she was much fatter than all of them. i was wearing a belt with my pants before i cahnged into my bathing suit, and it was too big on me, so i tried it on her, since she wasn't going swimming. i adjusted it on the highest notch, and still it was tight. kyle noticed how tight her big belly looked in the outfit when she sat down, and encouraged her to take off the belt, so she finally did. i don;t think she'll be going to the pool anytime soon, again, though. (view less)
From john, Child's Age 12 - 06/28/09 - IP#: 69.114.130.xxx Click here to reply
do the marks from rings around your stomach ever go away when you get thinner? please let me know, because my daughter has alot of them, and she reeally wants to model the bikini line, one of her goals, in abercrombie and fitch!!
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well, today, sammie ate a litte better than normal.
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thanks for all of the advice. especially between kyle and sammie. i got kyle alone, and calmly asked him what his problem is. he tried to ignore the real question, and told me about how much sammie ate yesterday. after a while of trying to get through to him, he told me he was scared about her, and didn't want her to keep gaining weight. he told me he's afraid she'll get a health condition, and makes fun of her to try to get her to see she has to lose weight. by the way, kyle just got a call from abercrombie and fitch this morning, after staying up the entire night to hear the results. he made it! i told him i was proud of him, but would be even more proud of him if he went and told his sister what he told me, in a nice way. first, he tried to stall, by calling his girlfriend, but then i saw him awkwardly enter sammie's room. at first, her began muttering about all the food wrappers,... (view more)thanks for all of the advice. especially between kyle and sammie. i got kyle alone, and calmly asked him what his problem is. he tried to ignore the real question, and told me about how much sammie ate yesterday. after a while of trying to get through to him, he told me he was scared about her, and didn't want her to keep gaining weight. he told me he's afraid she'll get a health condition, and makes fun of her to try to get her to see she has to lose weight. by the way, kyle just got a call from abercrombie and fitch this morning, after staying up the entire night to hear the results. he made it! i told him i was proud of him, but would be even more proud of him if he went and told his sister what he told me, in a nice way. first, he tried to stall, by calling his girlfriend, but then i saw him awkwardly enter sammie's room. at first, her began muttering about all the food wrappers, but then he closed the door, and i couldn't hear the rest. soon, sammie came out crying, and told me she wanted to lose weight really badly. she was practically begging. kyle told me that he told her if she reached a certain goal weight, she would be able to apply for abercrombie, and they could do it together. i have a feeling it's going to be hard for her, but doable. well, let's hope all goes well, and kyle has finally stopped picking on his sister. (view less)
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hi all. today, i went out to a party, and i made Sammie stay home so she wouldn't gain more weight from all the food eating there. well, anyway, she screamed, and was crying when i left. when i came home, Sammie was at the table, eating chicken, steak chicken nuggets, hot dogs, cake, ice cream, chips, hamburgers, and a whole bunch of candy layed out on the table. i didn't bother yelling at her. then, when she was almost done with it all, she went over to the fridge for more. my wife was on a buisiness trip for almost the whole day, so i was alone with her and kyle. he asked her howlong she'd beeneating for, and she said, since we had left for the party. after she wasdone eating the second round, she took a break and sat down. i was about to yell at her for eating all the food, when i heard a popping sound. her button down shirt came halfway undone, and her jean button popped right open, ... (view more)hi all. today, i went out to a party, and i made Sammie stay home so she wouldn't gain more weight from all the food eating there. well, anyway, she screamed, and was crying when i left. when i came home, Sammie was at the table, eating chicken, steak chicken nuggets, hot dogs, cake, ice cream, chips, hamburgers, and a whole bunch of candy layed out on the table. i didn't bother yelling at her. then, when she was almost done with it all, she went over to the fridge for more. my wife was on a buisiness trip for almost the whole day, so i was alone with her and kyle. he asked her howlong she'd beeneating for, and she said, since we had left for the party. after she wasdone eating the second round, she took a break and sat down. i was about to yell at her for eating all the food, when i heard a popping sound. her button down shirt came halfway undone, and her jean button popped right open, and they were brand new. i got her up on the scale, to find that her weight skyrocketed an extra twenty pounds from a few days ago, all into her stomach. i brought her to the store then, so the salesman could measuer her for a new belt. the tape measure barely fit around her belly. he told me there were no belts in her size in the girl's department, and told me to tyr the men's. we now shop there for all her clothes. she told me she wanted to try on some girls slim jeans and i told her no. this was because kyle had just picked out boys slim jeans, and a shirt, and Sammie was jealous. a couple of people who were near the dressing room gaped over my son trying on a new bathing suit. kyle's girlfriend Naiome, who also came with us, is also very thin, even thinner than Kyle, and tall. Naiome tried on a bikini, and then Sammie asked where she got it from. Naiome is a size 0, so i knew right away it wasn't something Sammie could wear. Naiome is very nice to Sammie, though, and tried to tell her nicely it wasn't going to fit her, by reccomending some cute plus sized women's one peices, and water shorts.it's so hard to go shopping with sammie, because she wants to wear whatever Naiome wears. the two have gone out for almsot a year now, and i heard Naiome just got a modeling contract for Abercrombie and Fitch. my son is applying today, and i don't know what to do if he gets the job. sammie will be so jealous, and i just want her to be happy. what should i do? (view less)
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From john, Child's Age 12 - 06/23/09 - IP#: 69.123.65.xxx Click here to reply
hello, everyone. later today, i apologized to my daughter, and she accepted it. she is good at hiding her feelings when she wants to. like today, i cleaned up her room while she went to the grocery store, and i found her journal. one of the entries went like this. It's not fair. Why can't i be the model?it's so embarrassing when i go anywhere, and i want to be homeschooled so badly. my friend told me to join her for dance, a few days ago, but my leotard ripped when i tried to get it on. i don't want to say anything to mom and dad, becuase they will laugh.__
i feel so helpless. she weighs more than double me, my wife, and her brother. i guess i should tell you about it. when she wasborn, she was a healthy weight, up until she was two years old. she always asked for more when we fed her, and i assumed she was just hungry. when she was three i noticed she was little chubby and thought ... (view more)hello, everyone. later today, i apologized to my daughter, and she accepted it. she is good at hiding her feelings when she wants to. like today, i cleaned up her room while she went to the grocery store, and i found her journal. one of the entries went like this. It's not fair. Why can't i be the model?it's so embarrassing when i go anywhere, and i want to be homeschooled so badly. my friend told me to join her for dance, a few days ago, but my leotard ripped when i tried to get it on. i don't want to say anything to mom and dad, becuase they will laugh.__
i feel so helpless. she weighs more than double me, my wife, and her brother. i guess i should tell you about it. when she wasborn, she was a healthy weight, up until she was two years old. she always asked for more when we fed her, and i assumed she was just hungry. when she was three i noticed she was little chubby and thought it was jsut baby fat. at four and five, she had developed a rounder belly, and her face looked a little bit chubby. this was not something that had happened to our son, but we also thought it would go away. at six, she didn't even excersize anymore, and ate very large portions of food, bigger than her brother was eating at that point it was clear she wasno longer just chubby, but fat. her belly was very large, and she began to develop a double chin. she was classified as obese at age seven. wewere unfamiliar with this, because her brother wasclassified as underweight, and assumed she would follow in his steps. but she kept gaining and gaining, and all of it would end up stored in her stomach. i first saw it was getting more than a little bigger when she wore an old bikini to the pool at nine years old. her belly was stretched over to a little past her elbow in length if she were toi hold her arms outl. i remembered kyle wasin charge of rubbing sun tan lotion on her when she was a little girl, and he wasw curious, andh asked why her tummy was different from his. after we explained that, every time they got in a fight, he would tell her she wasn't skinny, and she didn't really understand it too much back then. i think most of her weight teasing comes from him. and it's really not my fault she dosen't listen. it's because she's spoiled that she became obese, and kyle obviously understands how to take care of himself beter than she does. she's hurting her body, and i don't know what to do anymore. her belly has gotten big, and it keeps getting bigger, along with the rest of her. please help our big girl become thin, i really don't want her to suffer with this body anymore. (view less)
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yesterday, i sat down my daughter, and tried to have a talk with her. i asked her why she ate so much on the cruise, and she started yelling, why do you always watch what i ea, but never kyle? by the way, he is 15, i accidentally messed up the numbers before. but i said, because he has no weight problem!, and she started screaming, and saying she can eat whatever he wants, and i told her no. so she went right to the fridge, grabbed a large chunk of cake with her hands, went up to my face, and shoved it in her mouth. then, she spit some onto me, and i went crazy yelling. i lifted up part of her shirt, and poked her stomach, and said where did that come from, huh? she cried even louder, and kyle laughed, and my wife told her to take a jog around the block with kyle. when they came back, kyle was mad, saying everyone was asking if he was the personal trainer, and laughing at sammie, who... (view more)yesterday, i sat down my daughter, and tried to have a talk with her. i asked her why she ate so much on the cruise, and she started yelling, why do you always watch what i ea, but never kyle? by the way, he is 15, i accidentally messed up the numbers before. but i said, because he has no weight problem!, and she started screaming, and saying she can eat whatever he wants, and i told her no. so she went right to the fridge, grabbed a large chunk of cake with her hands, went up to my face, and shoved it in her mouth. then, she spit some onto me, and i went crazy yelling. i lifted up part of her shirt, and poked her stomach, and said where did that come from, huh? she cried even louder, and kyle laughed, and my wife told her to take a jog around the block with kyle. when they came back, kyle was mad, saying everyone was asking if he was the personal trainer, and laughing at sammie, who embarrassed him by pulling her shirt u to expose her belly. he now won't ever take her out again, and now the neighbor's kids are constant;y teasing her when she goes outside, saying hey fatty, going for another jog? i really don't know what to do anymore. my son't a model, and my daughter is obese. it's not normal, and i am really at the end of my rope. maybe i should do liposuction, since she does not want to listen to excersize. please, help me think of something. (view less)
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From Kya, Child's Age 12 - 06/22/09 - IP#: 97.122.248.xxx Click here to reply
My daughter is now 5'3 but she still has lots of fat in her stomach, when she sits down she has love handles. Any advice on how to lose that fat? I just want her to be happy and she has very low self esteem when shopping for cloths... please post tips and advice!
From john, Child's Age 12 - 06/20/09 - IP#: 69.123.160.xxx Click here to reply
we are back from our cruise vacation, early in the morning. i feel so guilty for letting sammie eat so much on the ship now, bacause i didn't know she would really eat all day. she definitely looks like she has gained weight. when we left the ship, her stomach was literally sticking out of her shirt. it isn't flabby, though, it is firm, and round,she does have love handles and fat rolls, but it dosen't hang down unless she sits. yesterday, when my wife finally convinced her to go swimming, we found her bathing suit no longer fit her, either, mainly in the waist part. also, we found out she gained an extra thirty pounds. she just keeps getting bigger and bigger, and even a member on the ship said to her with a laugh:i saw you all the time by that buffet table. that stomach of your sure looks like it knows how to fit it all in!
we heard another rude comment while leaving, from a... (view more)we are back from our cruise vacation, early in the morning. i feel so guilty for letting sammie eat so much on the ship now, bacause i didn't know she would really eat all day. she definitely looks like she has gained weight. when we left the ship, her stomach was literally sticking out of her shirt. it isn't flabby, though, it is firm, and round,she does have love handles and fat rolls, but it dosen't hang down unless she sits. yesterday, when my wife finally convinced her to go swimming, we found her bathing suit no longer fit her, either, mainly in the waist part. also, we found out she gained an extra thirty pounds. she just keeps getting bigger and bigger, and even a member on the ship said to her with a laugh:i saw you all the time by that buffet table. that stomach of your sure looks like it knows how to fit it all in!
we heard another rude comment while leaving, from a couple talking to themselves they said:look at the size of that girl! it looks like she takes the food away from her family, look how skinny her poor brother is!if i were them, i'd do some liposuction on that stomach of hers. it must be as big as the ship!
i tried to ignore all the comments about her abnormally large belly, but i just couldn't. i can't take this any more. i can tell sammie really wishes se didn't tell me she likes her body this way, because she dosen't. i see the envy in her eyes when i complement her brother on how good his abs look in a bathing suit, and when i ask her if she has gained weight. i want to encourage her brother to pursue his dreams, but meanwhile i am crushing hers. whenever kyle's friends come over, they ask, is that really yoour little sister? she's so fat! and he laughs with them. he just acts so darn obnoxious, and makes sure he gets a front fow seat when she gets weighed inthe doctor's office. our doctor actually yelled at him when he said, she might break the scale. really, he has no concern, and is just embarrassed of her size. i really need your help, she is getting larger every day. please, this is very impportant to me, and the health of my big girl. (view less)
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i was able to get internet access on the ship, so i will keep you posted with updates in my daughter. i am a little worried about her. since we've gotten on the ship, all she has done is eat. my wife told her to take a break, and go do something with her brother, but she started to cry, and said she was hungry.whenever we go on cruises, she usually gains alotof weight, but she has never eaten this intensely before. i am worried it is because we told her we were okay with whatever she looked like. by the afternoon, it was time for the chocolate and desserts buffet to open, and truthfully, she never left the room. when she sat down, i saw that her belly extended a little past her knees. she continued to eat until it was time for bed. kyle told me that her pants looked too tight, so i went over to check it out. she looked completely bloated, even her double chin looked bigger than usual,... (view more)i was able to get internet access on the ship, so i will keep you posted with updates in my daughter. i am a little worried about her. since we've gotten on the ship, all she has done is eat. my wife told her to take a break, and go do something with her brother, but she started to cry, and said she was hungry.whenever we go on cruises, she usually gains alotof weight, but she has never eaten this intensely before. i am worried it is because we told her we were okay with whatever she looked like. by the afternoon, it was time for the chocolate and desserts buffet to open, and truthfully, she never left the room. when she sat down, i saw that her belly extended a little past her knees. she continued to eat until it was time for bed. kyle told me that her pants looked too tight, so i went over to check it out. she looked completely bloated, even her double chin looked bigger than usual, and her face was very pudgy. after my wife checked her pants, we'd found out she'd grown two sizes bigger, and couldn't fit into her pants anymore. we tried my old workout sweatpants, but she couldn't pull them over her legs. my wife went to the shop, and bought her some more sweatpants, and tourist shirts. the largest size in mens still stretched tightly over her,and revealed her belly. i need some help. what brands of clothes are good for covering up large stomachs? i would like her to lose some of her belly, because she waddles when she walks, and it is hard for her to bend down and tie her shoelaces, because she can't see her shoes anymore. do you think i should leave her alone, or make her lose a little weight? does anyone have this problem with their daughters? please, dosen't anyone respond on this website? i really need some help. (view less)
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From john, Child's Age 12 - 06/17/09 - IP#: 69.123.161.xxx Click here to reply
yesterday, we went to a pretty fancy resteraunt, we like to go out to eat alot, and my daughter ate a humongous amount of food. she would not touch the salad, but drank two bowls of soup, and had the whole plate of cheesy fries, which was our appetizer. again, she had to wear one of my belts, too keep her shirt on over her stomach. next, she refilled her soda four times, and ordered a hot dog and hamburger duo, her favorites. after wolfing the meal down, she ordered another of the same dish. she was about to order one more, when i heard her groaning, and rubbing her belly. i went over to help her, and found that her stomach was being squeezed by the belt. i put it on the highest notch for her, and she proceded to eat the third plate of food. by then, it was time for dessert, she has a very large appetite, so we let her get the mini cake for herself, plus a chocolate milkshake. she then... (view more)yesterday, we went to a pretty fancy resteraunt, we like to go out to eat alot, and my daughter ate a humongous amount of food. she would not touch the salad, but drank two bowls of soup, and had the whole plate of cheesy fries, which was our appetizer. again, she had to wear one of my belts, too keep her shirt on over her stomach. next, she refilled her soda four times, and ordered a hot dog and hamburger duo, her favorites. after wolfing the meal down, she ordered another of the same dish. she was about to order one more, when i heard her groaning, and rubbing her belly. i went over to help her, and found that her stomach was being squeezed by the belt. i put it on the highest notch for her, and she proceded to eat the third plate of food. by then, it was time for dessert, she has a very large appetite, so we let her get the mini cake for herself, plus a chocolate milkshake. she then ate that, and i saw her still fidgeting with the belt. she told me her stomach hurt, and i felt it for her. her shrit felt very tight, like her belly was about to burst out. it turned out that the belt was just too tight, so she took it off, and looked relieved when her belly hung out. i tried to talk to her again that night, and she laughed, saying that she was just joking the other day. she said she knows she is obese, and she dosen't want to be a model. she said it's just her stomach's way of making room for all the food she eats.after a talk with her brother, he nolonger makes comments, because i take away his allowance if he does. i guess all if working out. except that my daughter is still obese, and she likes it. i asked her to weigh herself for me, and it came back 230.is it possible to gain ten pounds in a night? we bought her elastic pants in the men's section, so when we go out to eat, her belly will have room to expand. we also bought her some shorter tops, so she can show off her belly, and be proud of it. it turns out it wasn't self eteem at all, beause today, she says she dosen't care about what others say. we are going on a cruise for two days, so i will let you know more when we get back. but i just want to know if i am doing the right thing. she dosen't seem to care about what others say, and likes to show off her belly now that she knows we're okay with that. i don't want her to be embarrassed of herself. do you think i am doing the right thing? i mean, i can deal with the staring and the rude comments if i know my little girl is happy with her body. what about all of you dads? (view less)
From john, Child's Age 12 - 06/17/09 - IP#: 24.186.86.xxx Click here to reply
thank you, taylor, for that caring remark. when i typed that, i was implying that she be healthy, since healthy is better when you are thinner. i wouldn't mind if she were 500 pounds, but it is hurting her self esteem, and truthfully, i do feel embarrassed. not of her, of myself. i let her become the size she is now, and people like to make fun, especially if they are from a thin family. also, i want her to be thin because i want her dreams of a model to come true. but she is happy when she eats, so i will let her eat. i just hope somehow she can be healthier, and have a slimmer appearence.
From john, Child's Age 12 - 06/15/09 - IP#: 69.122.90.xxx Click here to reply
I tried to talk to my daughter, Sammie. i told her that she needs to realize she is obese, and is setting unrealistic goals for herself, such as to be a swimsuit model like her brother has done once. she asked me why i pick on her because she isn't fat. i think she knows she is, but is embarrassed. we recently went to a dinner party, and a relative we haven't seen in a while thought she was the older sister. when we told her no, she patted sammie's large belly, and told her all the weight is unhealthy for her to have. she joked, and said she took her family's stomachs on herself. i can't really blame my relative, sammie wore a very tight button down shirt, and a skimpy skirt with one of my belts on the highest notch. the buttons were stretched over her, and her belly bulged over the top and bottom of the belt. what's worse is she ate two double hamburgers, and a giant slice of cake.... (view more)I tried to talk to my daughter, Sammie. i told her that she needs to realize she is obese, and is setting unrealistic goals for herself, such as to be a swimsuit model like her brother has done once. she asked me why i pick on her because she isn't fat. i think she knows she is, but is embarrassed. we recently went to a dinner party, and a relative we haven't seen in a while thought she was the older sister. when we told her no, she patted sammie's large belly, and told her all the weight is unhealthy for her to have. she joked, and said she took her family's stomachs on herself. i can't really blame my relative, sammie wore a very tight button down shirt, and a skimpy skirt with one of my belts on the highest notch. the buttons were stretched over her, and her belly bulged over the top and bottom of the belt. what's worse is she ate two double hamburgers, and a giant slice of cake. after eating, she looked like she had gotten bigger. my wife had to take her to the bathroom to get the belt off of her. i was so embarrassed, but the worst part was, her brother was laughing at her. he wasn't so hungry, so he was the one who gave her his food. at home, she ate all of our leftovers, and an entire box of cookies and a big bag of greasy chips we bought for kyle and his friends. it is even worse for her because she is actually 320 pounds, and her brother's 99 pounds. i am 120 pounds, and my wife is 115 pounds. this is no joke to me and i want to help her. most of the weight is in her belly, which makes her look even bigger. i am tired of the rude comments people give us when we go out somewhere. one woman selling pretzels at the mall actually tried toconvince us not to buy her a pretzel. she whispered that sammie was the biggest girl she had ever seen, and asked us why we are trying to kill her. do you have any advice? i am sorry, but i don't want to stop her from eating, she loves it, and i love her. maybe there is a slight excersize program for her belly she can do? is there any chance my little girl will ever be thin? (view less)
Reply from Taylor, Child's Age 15 - 06/15/09 - IP#: 75.66.40.xxx
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